Post # 77
Count me in the four column also! Fiance and I have a total of eight: we each have an honor attendant (MOH, BM) and then three other attendants. I would have loved to have more — but these are the ones that mean the most to me.
Post # 78
i have my Maid/Matron of Honor, 4 BM’s, 1 JR Bridesmaid or Best Man (who’s 16 so she’s pretty much a BM), and a flower girl/ring bearer (who won’t actually be carrying rings, but just walking down the aisle being his cute self). FI has a best man and 3 GM’s so we are uneven but that’s okay with me.
Post # 79
7 right now. A set of 4 junior bms and jgms, a junior bride and groom, 3 flower girls, 4 ringbarers/bible carriers, 8 hostesses/ushers. About 400 guests.
Post # 80
We have 8 Bridesmaid or Best Man, 8 Groomsmen, 1 flower girl, and 1 in the house party. I was going to have more in the house party (1 just doesn’t seem like a party haha), but now I’m not so sure…
Post # 81
I have 6 bridemaids, 6 groomsmen, a flowergirl and a ring bearer. Everything has gone smoothly so far!
Post # 82
I have 5, and they are so great! I knew I would not have any problems out of them. I set a deadline in Dec of Feb 1st to order bm dresses and 3 of 5 have already ordered. I think everything will go smoothly with my bms
Post # 83
I had 3 and it was absolutely perfect! If I had gone with more, there would have been hurt feelings, and I wanted to avoid the drama.
Post # 84
I have 4 Bridesmaids, 1 Maid of Honor and 1 Matron of Honor. That’s all of the adults.
Post # 85
I only wanted my 2 closest friends to stand with me, and since I’m an only child, I wouldn’t be leaving anyone out. But, my Fiance has 3 brothers. The four of them are very close, so he’s having all of them stand. This meant I had to find another Bridesmaid or Best Man (I don’t have another super close friend, so I just kinda picked someone). So, it isn’t a huge deal…it just sometimes feels like Bridesmaid or Best Man #3 isn’t really meant to be there.
In conclusion, we have 3 on each side.
Post # 86
I have 4 — I think its not the number but the meaning of the relationship behind whom you ask. If that means 1 or 10…. I dont like the filler idea either.
Post # 87
We had 6 Bridesmaids and groomsmen… We really didn’t expect anything of them except to have them show up dressed. They all did, so I wasn’t disappointed 🙂 But a couple really did go above and beyond.
Post # 88
I have 1 Maid/Matron of Honor, 4 BM’s, 1 jr. Bridesmaid or Best Man, 1 flower girl, 1 ring bearer and Fiance has best man and 4 GM’s so I guess our total wedding party is 13! Not too bad for our 200 guest list
Post # 89
I am a nut and have 1 matron of honor (my sister) and 7 bridesmaids (fiance’s sister and closest friends). I know it sounds insane, but I couldn’t “cut” any of them.
Post # 90
2 bridesmaids, 1 maid of honor
Post # 91
I have 3, I dont know how people can afford to have more than that considering gifts, dresses, hair and makeup