(Closed) How many bridesmaids do you have/plan on having?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: How many girls were in your bridal party?
    1 : (25 votes)
    9 %
    2 : (24 votes)
    9 %
    3 : (41 votes)
    15 %
    4 : (56 votes)
    21 %
    5 : (37 votes)
    14 %
    6 : (31 votes)
    12 %
    7 : (17 votes)
    6 %
    8 : (8 votes)
    3 %
    9 : (5 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    1975 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    im only having 2. in my honest opinion i think anything more then 3 is chaotic and too large

    Post # 4
    10453 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2014

    I love the idea of a big bridal party. I’d be all for it if I had that many close girlfriends. However I’m in a super male dominated industry, so… 2. My sister and my high school best friend.

    My wedding will be pretty formal, it’s at a private golf club and will be between 150-200 guests as well. 

    Post # 5
    703 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    im planning on having my 2 sisters and my FI’s sister (so 3 total).. we’ll prob have 80 guests or so.. its semi-formal at a hotel/restaurant/conference center that specializes in weddings

    Post # 6
    10453 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2014

    I am interested to see the poll results here. My fiancé wants to have more like 3 or 4 (he grew up in the same city so had 9 guys he has known forever), whereas I moved all over growing up. I was an Amoco brat. No matter how large the bridal party is, I think it should be people really special to you and not just number fillers.

    Post # 7
    1659 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I had six – four best friends and two sisters in law. It was perfect!

    Post # 8
    1186 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Real Simple Weddings magazine says 1 bridesmaid per 35-50 guests.  I think that’s about right.  So 4 or 5 BMs/GMs for a wedding with 200.

    Post # 9
    1481 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2015

    I’m probably going to have 8, 7 close friends plus Future Sister-In-Law. It works because SO has the same number including both his brothers and my oldest little brother (17 now, 19 when we get hitched ~ most likely lol)

    Post # 10
    486 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I have so many close friends I just cut my party down to 2 BMs, my sis and his sis. Otherwise I would have had 9 myself. We are also far from our hometowns, so it’d be a lot of work for all involved, so we decided to keep it simple. I’d heard a good point about doing the math and if 20% of your guest list is in the wedding party that’s a lot. So general rule, the bigger the wedding the bigger the party. That being said, play by your own rules. All weddings are different.

    Post # 11
    379 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I’m having three; my sister, Future Sister-In-Law, and best/childhood friend 🙂

    Post # 12
    4060 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2018

    In the UK it’s pretty uncommon to have more than 2 or 3, I’m thinking of a few more than that but haven’t decided yet.

    Post # 13
    1548 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I originally had 5, but this weekend I decided to add 4 more, so I will have 9. I was recently in a wedding it’s 9 bridesmaids and really the onlydifficulty was trying to determine dates that worked for everyone for dress shopping, the shower and bachelorette party, but if you plan far enough in advance, you shouldn’t run into too many issues. 


    ETA: we are planning on having 175-200 guests. It will be very formal. 

    Post # 14
    1471 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    I’m thinking of one, may add my future sister in law as well. In my culture, you pay for everything for the bridesmaid (shoes/ dress/ hair etc), and so it has simply come down to cold, hard finances


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