How many children do you want?

posted 1 month ago in Babies
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

We think we want 2. I’m not willing to have more than that. But we will see how we feel after one.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

Zero or two. Hoping to decide in the next couple years

devoutwoman :  

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

I used to want four or five (I’m one of six, my dad is one of TEN). Now that I have a three year old, I’ll be happy with only one more 😂

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

Two for sure, probably three.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

I want 3, Fiance wants 2. So I suppose we’ll get to 2 and see how it goes from there. Time isn’t on our side, necessarily…even if I got pregnant tomorrow (dear god no), we’d be 30 and 40 when the baby was born, and I don’t really want them super close together. 

I say all of this, and watch…the first one will do us in! Who knows what life holds, we could call it after the first, or end up with a couple sets of twins. You just never know.

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Uno 

dh and I both grew up happy only bebes… and we just really miss sleep 😂🙈

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper

I think two. We just had our first five months ago and are still reeling from that lol. But we’ll see. 

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2020 - Clarksville, VA

I’ve always felt that I’d want two because I’m an only child and I hated it. But I’ll be 33 by the time we get married and we don’t plan on TTC right away, so it might end up being one. 

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

devoutwoman :  If money were no issue Id have a TON… like 10-15  LOL yes Im crazy

But, aslas, we are a middle class family with two middle class incomes. We have three already (2 mine, 1 his – blended family) I thought I was done… but we decided to TTC after we get married this July. We cant afford daycare for 2 kids and we turn 35 this year so that will be the last one

Post # 13
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Busy bee

One, perhaps two. 

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2017 - A vineyard

I preferred 0 to 1. I have my one. Two would be my max and then I go get snipped. I watched my mom suffer with too many kids she didn’t want and suffered alongside her. I won’t do that to my daughter.

Post # 15
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Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2015

devoutwoman :  2 or 3 but a recent PCOS diagonsis might make planning a lot trickier 

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