Post # 1

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Sugar bee
So how many children will you ladies set out to have to complete your family, if any at all. We currently have one son, and are really undecided on whether or not to have another one. Two would be our max ( unless of course we ended up having twins the second time around), but the decision is so hard!
Vote in the poll, and feel free to say why you would want x amount of children. ๐ Thanks!
Post # 3

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Sugar bee
Where’s the “zero” option? We might eventually foster or adopt, but it wouldn’t break my heart (or DH’s heart) if we never had kids.
Post # 4

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Sugar bee
@Mrs Grape:
Whoops, I did add one, don’t know what happened! I’ll re do that for you ๐
Post # 5

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Honey bee
We would like one girl and one boy. So at least two. Although, we’ll see how we enjoy being a parent when we have our first. But, I’m pretty sure we’ll want another one. As for child number 3, it depends on if we have two girls already or two boys and if we want to try for another.
Post # 5

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Honey bee
I’d love 3, Fiance wants 1…I think we’ve decided on 2 ๐
Post # 6

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Bee Keeper
I want 2 and DH wants 4. I am afraid to have more than 2 because of financial reasons and my parents were able to give us so much more and take vacations, etc because they only had two kids. So I guess it’s safe to say we will stay with 2 but the next 2 would 100% depend on our financial situation. Also, I don’t want an odd number lol
Post # 7

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Honey bee
I want 2, Fiance wants 3, which is not likely unless we end up with twins. 2 is plenty.
Post # 7

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Blushing bee
Im in the same boat as you Cash000. We have a 22 month old son and are debating if we want another one. Our boy is such a handful I we feel like life is finally calm. 2 would be the max for us as well.
Post # 8

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Sugar bee
DH and I want 2. Just enough to replace ourselves on this earth, as his father says.
Post # 9

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Sugar bee
@futuremrsmclean:
Yeah, thing is we are SO content. But then many woman I know are having or have had their second, and everyone tells us that a child needs a sibling. We really would like to give our son everything in the world, including being well travelled, and love the fact that I can be a stay at home mom financially right now with one. Two children seems like so much both financially, with tuition, flights, day care ( because I would definitely need to go back into the work force) these days, and physically.
Post # 10

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Honey bee
We would like 2. 3 at most.
Post # 11

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Buzzing bee
I already have 2 of my own and Fiance very much wants one as well so we will be stopping at 3.
Post # 12

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Bee Keeper
We’ve agreed on 3, but we’ll see what happens when we reach that number; I think my husband could easily be convinced to go for four.
Right after I gave birth to Addie, I told my husband I wanted a million more. ๐ A bit of an exaggeration, but having her has been such an easy, wonderful experience, I would gladly take a whole house full.
Post # 13

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Sugar bee
We have one. I want 2. Fi wants 3.