(Closed) How many flowers girls is too many?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
3785 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I would go with the 2 youngest if I were you (the ones that will be 3) It’s obvious that way you aren’t “picking favorites”. Or you could not have any, which is what we are doing to avoid your dilemma! Haha!

Post # 4
2253 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Actually this may not be as big of a problem as you think. Most of the kids in my family don’t want to serve in the wedding bc they’re too shy or too young. I would ask the kids or their parents to see if this is something they think would be a feasible idea. Also even if they don’t want to “serve” you can always get them a flowergirl dress and take pics with them later so they feel included without having them walk down the aisle.

Post # 5
532 posts
Busy bee

you can be like Kate Moss…. she had lots and lots of flower girls at her wedding 🙂 


Post # 6
1701 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I had 3 flower girls, 1 ring bearer, 2 jr groomsmen (they really didn’t do anything but walk down the aisle and pass out programs beforehand) and a jr bridesmaid.  Quite a few people told me that I was having too many, but which one was I going to leave out?  The kids all behaved beautifully and had a great time.

If you are only going with one, go with the oldest–7 isn’t too old to be a flower girl.  The other ones are too young to know what is going on, but the 7 year old would be crushed if she wasn’t included.

Post # 9
700 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I agree with PP – I would pick the oldest niece and nephew (10 and 7 seems good to me) to be Flower Girl and Ring Bearer. Or, if you like, oldest on each side (yours and his).

We’re having 2 FGs (both his side, one cousin and one friend of the family, 6 and 7 yrs old), 1 “junior FG” (my side, 1 year old, our Goddaughter, my sister’s daughter), and 1 Ring Bearer (my sister’s son, 6 yrs old).

Hope this helps!

Post # 10
2616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

in my sisters wedding me and my younger cousin were the flower girls.. my other sister was crushed. she was one year older then me. cousin was one year younger then me..


she had 2 flower girls and 2 ringer bearers. my first wedding i had two of my neices–( i have 14 neices and 5 nephews( only invited two sibling sets and a total of four-(2 nieces 2nephewe) one nephew was to shy so he sat out the ring bearer duty..


this wedding i am having my children- 7 year old flower girl and 5 and 3 year old ring bearers

Post # 11
156 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I remember reading somewhere about a bride who didn’t have an official flowergirl… she had a bunch of small bouquets made up (they wouldn’t have to be real or very fancy) and every little girl who wanted to was invited to join in the procession. This would work best for a more casual wedding but I thought it was a cute idea.

Post # 12
44 posts
  • Wedding: April 2012

I’d pick the little ones – they’re going to be the cutest! : ) I don’t think it seems like picking favourites….

Post # 13
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

Since the older girls are so close in age, I think it’s fine to exclude them. Just choose the 3 year olds.

Post # 14
143 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012 - the Columns Hotel

I have four, ages  5, 7, 9 , almost 10. So clearly, I’m of the thought the more the merrier.   🙁

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