(Closed) how many friends weddings were you invited too from grade school to college

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3053 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

I’ve only been invited to one so far but I don’t stay in touch with many people from HS. I was actually pretty shocked to be invited to the one I was and declined because I hadn’t talked to her in years. If we’re not still friends, I’m not going to go to your wedding or invite you to mine just because we USED to know each other lol

Post # 4
481 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I was invited to two. I only stayed in touch with one girlfriend from high school because we were best friends. I wasn’t able to make her wedding because I moved cross-country. The other one got married while we were still in college so our whole “group” was invited.

Post # 5
7499 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010


Post # 6
132 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I am pretty close with four girls from my secondary school (aged 11-18), one of which I knew from primary school (4-11) too. I went to all of their weddings. 

Haven’t been invited to any “randoms” though.

Post # 7
3552 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Umm, not sure if this counts, but I went to the wedding of FI’s best friend from high school’s sister. That’s it though. We just graduated college so it isn’t really that time of life for people yet.

Post # 8
2965 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I haven’t been invited to any. I don’t have hardly any female friends. I only know one girl who was married that I still talk to (she is a Bridesmaid or Best Man in my wedding) but she had a Destination Wedding so that crossed that off. But she invited me to her bridal shower.

Post # 9
2224 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014


Post # 10
10366 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Only one friend is married (I’m 29, nobody gets married young here), and I was invited to her wedding. My husband is a little older, and we’ve been to his 5 best guy friends’ weddings (he is 35 though).

Post # 11
3942 posts
Honey bee

2 from college and 1 from grade school/high school. We were neighbors since the age of 2 though so my whole family was invited.

Post # 12
95 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

none from elementary or middle school as I moved schools several times and haven’t kept in touch with those people. I have a big group of high school and college friends, so here are my counts:

~15 from high school 

~20 from college

These numbers are only for my side, I’m not counting my FI’s friends

Post # 13
586 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’ve been to one so far, but soon I will be in one of my friend’s wedding. Most of my friends are not married yet so I guess I may have a few to go to later in life.

I’ve been to 7 or so weddings that were my husband’s friend’s weddings.


Post # 14
1548 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Both Fiance and I went to the same HS and he went to the university thats only about 20 min away (almost everyone from our HS went there) – so out of our 75 friends invited to the wedding, I’d say maybe 50 are from HS and college, we’ve all been close for a very long time.

ETA: Out of our bridal party of 17, there are only 4 people that we didn’t go to HS with. 

Post # 15
1572 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

This year I will be attending the wedding of a friend since grade 4 (we still see each other a couple times a year) and a bridesmaid in the wedding of one of my best friends since tenth grade.


Post # 16
2968 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

none. i haven’t really maintained close relationships with many of my friends from school. none of the ones i’m still close with are married yet and the ones who are married are ones i’m not close to anymore, so i wasn’t invited to their weddings.

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