(Closed) How many kids do you want?

posted 8 years ago in Babies
  • poll: How many kids?
    No kids for us! : (18 votes)
    11 %
    1-2 : (44 votes)
    27 %
    2-3 : (73 votes)
    44 %
    3-4 : (24 votes)
    14 %
    4-5 : (4 votes)
    2 %
    5+ : (3 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    3788 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Nevermind, I answered my own question.

    Post # 4
    Member
    7082 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2009

    1 bio, 1 adopted…  Haven’t decided whether we’re going girl or boy for the adopted one.  We’ll just get through this one first!

    Post # 5
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    183 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I’ve got two bio.

    Get the littlest out of the terrible two’s before I plug the adoption idea.

     

    Post # 6
    Member
    5263 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We want two kids. 

    Although sometimes I struggle with the thought of any, I really don’t want to have just one. I’m an only child, and was really lonely through the 7+ times my parents had us pick up and move. 

    Post # 7
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    2027 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We have always said 2, simply because it seems if there are 3, someone’s always the odd man out, and personally, I would have hated being an only child. I feel bad for people without siblings. I also think if we ended up wanting more than 2, we’d probably go for 4, just to make things even, but we’d have to own a lot of land. I don’t know how people have 5 kids and live on a 1/4 acre. 

    Post # 8
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    1049 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 1998

    Fiance and I have talked about this since we were just bf and gf. I don’t see kids in our future, and I told him he needed to understand that or there really wasn’t any future for us. He thought about it and eventually said he’d rather have me and no kids than kids without me. (awwwwwww). But we’ve discussed it many times very seriously. I won’t say never, because you never know, but I just don’t see it happening for us and that’s how I want it.

    Post # 9
    Member
    687 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2009

    we want two kids, hopefully bio for both but if not, then we want to adopt!

    Post # 10
    Member
    1207 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    My husband wants two.  I’m secretly hoping for 3 or more!  Haha.  My parents had 3, but their parents had 5 and 6.  So I have lots of aunts and uncles and cousins and my kids won’t get that.  So I would kind of like my grandkids to have lots of aunts and uncles and cousins.  I think 4 would be good.  Maybe I will get lucky and have two sets of twins!  lol.

    Post # 11
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    5670 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Two kids if we have a boy and a girl. And depending on our financial situation, if we have 2 boys or 2 girls, I would go for 4. I don’t want a middle child.

    Post # 12
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    5154 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    We want two kids 🙂

    Biological is our plan but if we need to I’d love to adopt…I am a big believer in it and my brother is adopted.

    Post # 13
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    2280 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Three or four of our own. In my family four tends to be the ideal number; not so few that the kids miss out on sibling relationships, not so many that it overwhelms the parents. SO is more likely to lean towards three since he only has one brother. We’ll see what happens! 🙂

    Post # 14
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    5921 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Fiance wants 2, I’d prefer 1. We will start with 1 and see what happens 🙂

    Post # 15
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    2058 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I would love 3 – – I will be turning 31 just after we get married – I would have to pop those three out pretty quickly. So I am thinking we’ll have 2 – FH wants two because he is one of two. I am the last of 5 and I love having siblings, plural Laughing

    Post # 16
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    424 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I hve my two girls from previous relationships, and we’re trying for a baby now. If we have a boy, then we won’t try for anymore. However, if we have a girl, I think we will try again for a boy. I wouldn’t mind being a foster parent when my kids are a little older, but that will depend on the development of my oldest child (autistic).

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