(Closed) How many kids do you want to have and how many siblings do you have?

posted 8 years ago in Babies
  • poll: How many kids is IDEAL?
    1 : (12 votes)
    5 %
    2 : (114 votes)
    49 %
    3 : (62 votes)
    27 %
    4 : (32 votes)
    14 %
    5+ : (5 votes)
    2 %
    ZERO : (7 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 33
    Member
    2546 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I grew up with two siblings. I have one kid now, and think tha’s where we’re going to be staying.

    Post # 34
    Member
    2137 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    im 1 of 2 and SO is 5 of 5 , we currently have one babygirl and i would say 2 is my limit SO wants 3 but ehh i dont know about that lol

    Post # 35
    Member
    2870 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I am 1 of 4 and Darling Husband is 1 of 2.

    We want 2 but we had a hard time with getting pregnant. We have both said if we end up only being able to have 1 we are ok with that.

     

    Post # 36
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    166 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I am 1 of 7 and my fiance is 1 of 2. His ideal would be just two children and mine would be 3. I always tease him that the third may be a surprise. haha. We will see how we both feel when we get to that point.

    Post # 37
    Member
    6245 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 1900

    I am one of 3. I want 2-3 kids.

    Fiance is also one of 3. He wants 3+ kids.

    Post # 38
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    6996 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    @hisgoosiegirl:  holidays get crazy! her youngest child is 8 and oldest is 30. She already has 3 grandchildren and one on the way.

    Post # 39
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    3623 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I have one sibling and Fiance has none. I want 3-4, though we’ll probably only have 2. I don’t think I’ll want to keep giving birth, plus, I’ll want each kid to have their own room, we’ll want to go out to dinner, travel and have them in extracirriculars. All that is expensive! And I don’t want to dive a mini van. But I want a big family. We’ll see 🙂

    Post # 40
    Member
    494 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I’m the youngest of 2. My husband is the oldest of 2. I’m pregnant with our first and would like 2 kids. I never envisioned more than that.

    Post # 41
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    13095 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I want 3-4 kids and Darling Husband wants 2-3 kids.

    I am 1 of 3 and he is 1 of 2.

    Post # 42
    Member
    4038 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I’m one of 7, and Darling Husband is one of 3.

    We only want 1. 

    Post # 43
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    1991 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I want 3-4 but Darling Husband wants 2-3

    I am one of 3

    and he is one of 4.

     

    Personally I loved having two siblings which is why i want more than 2.  I think he must have felt 4 was too many (although of course we love all his brothers) and also he thinks about the financial stress of having so many kids.

    Post # 44
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    11231 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I’m an only and Fiance has three siblings (one older brother, one younger brother, one younger sister; the younger two are like siblings to me). I would LOVE to have an only (I loved being an only), but we both agreed that two would be good. 

    FI’s brother and SIL are trying to convince us that one kid is enough. They’re in their mid 30s and have an 18 month old, and they’re super overwhelmed. I’m in my mid 20s, but I definitely think Fiance and I will be awesome parents. He tells me what a good mom I’ll be, which is weird, since I never wanted kids.

    Post # 45
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    5107 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I am an only child and want a huge family.  Darling Husband has a brother and thinks that 2 is ideal…that’s not going to work for me 😉 haha

    Post # 46
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    1676 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Darling Husband and I are both one of 2. I’m the eldest in my family and he’s the youngest in his.

    We will not be having children. 🙂

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