(Closed) How many of you actually give BJs outside of makeup sex?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll:

    I do, all the time

    Nope, Not at all

    I do, only during makeup sex

  • Post # 47
    203 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    Oral is a huge part of our sex life, I give them all the time. We joke that it borders on obsession 🙂

    Post # 48
    2522 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Um…I  LOVE giving my guy blowjobs. I don’t know why. I probably need therapy. It’s a major part of our foreplay (he loves reciprocating, too!), but if we’re driving down a dark road or something, I’ll definitely be naughty and do it while he’s driving!

    …or if we’re lucky enough to be alone in a movie theater…

    …or pretty much anywhere.


    Post # 49
    3941 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Doesn’t that spark a lot of arguments on his part? Hahaha

    Post # 50
    3683 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Not all the time, but not just during makeup sex.

    Post # 51
    1016 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    For us, it is typically part of foreplay, or in between having intercourse. I love doing it!

    I don’t know that we have ever had make up sex because we don’t really fight, and the few fights that we have had we made sure to make up before we went to bed that night (that is our policy), but those particular nights we couldn’t have sex because we were crashing on a friend’s couch (big party night) or we were in different states.

    Post # 52
    999 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    I do it sometimes as Foreplay, but it’s just to get it going/started…LOL!!!

    Post # 53
    4801 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    If one of us is angry/sulky/distant/whatever, sex is pretty much the last thing on the other person’s mind, we don’t do makeup sex or BJs or anything at all like that. I think it sets up a pretty bad relationship dynamic to only do certain sexual things if the it’s been a long time and the other person starts acting different because of it. My DH has acted like that once because I had a stressful period of time where I was barely ever in the mood to do anything especially BJs, but we talked it out and were able to find a middle ground. Now he knows how to help me relax (and therefore, be in the mood more) when I’m stressed, and I make more of an effort to do certain things he likes on a fairly regular basis without him having to ask.

    However (TMI alert) I am very lucky to have a guy with litle to no precum. My ex had tons and I’ll admit I enjoy giving them much more now that I’m with a guy where taste isn’t an issue.

    Post # 54
    2695 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

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    @axeyourmakeupkit:  I can’t think that we’ve ever had makeup sex. Kissing and cuddling, though, yeah.

    Post # 55
    7368 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    I don’t think oral sex should only be a ‘treat’ or part of make up sex. To me its a normal part of foreplay and love making.

    Post # 58
    834 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    All the time! I love to give it! (Sorry if TMI) Lol.

    Post # 59
    4038 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    We do sometimes have makeup sex (usually hours later), after we’ve talked everything out and then want to physically reconnect. 

    I really really enjoy giving DH blowjobs (I never really did for anyone else). They are a regular part of our foreplay (they get us BOTH going), happen occasionally when he wants to have sex and I don’t (much less frequent, I’m easily persuaded–and giving usually gets me in the mood), or when he’s super stressed out about something and I want to relax him but have limited time. 

    Post # 61
    4272 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I give them whenever I feel like.

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