(Closed) How many of you actually give BJs outside of makeup sex?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll:

    I do, all the time

    Nope, Not at all

    I do, only during makeup sex

  • Post # 62
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I don’t just do it during makeup sex. I don’t do it as often as I used to but we don’t have as much sex as we used to. I would still say I do it on a fairly regular basis – I wouldn’t expect to receive if I never give. 🙂

    Post # 63
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    We have never had make-up sex. And he doesn’t get them all the time but he does get them! I couldn’t really vote because it isn’t all the time but he does get them.

    Post # 64
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I always give oral as part of foreplay (it’s a big turn-on for me). I give start-to-finish BJs when I’m having my period and penetration is out of the question.

    Don’t think we’ve ever had makeup sex. It doesn’t really feel right to have sex until we’ve properly resolved an issue.

    Post # 65
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Offering sex in general is enough to perk him up when he’s mad at me…no need for BJs lol. 

    ETA: This is mostly a joke, as I don’t recall us ever having makeup sex. I don’t really give BJs, though, to quell anger or for any other reason. My DH feels like he’s demeaning me and never lets me continue for very long, so I don’t do it much in general.

    Post # 66
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I do this often.  I never considered using it for some specific purpose other than enjoyment.  Hmm, maybe I can get something out of this!

    We’ve never had makeup sex.  Or angry sex for that matter.

    Post # 67
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I’ll give him oral, and it’s never for “make-up sex”. But I wouldn’t say I do it often.

    Post # 68
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    We do almost every time

    Post # 69
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2015 - Thorpewood

    I legit don’t think my SO and I have ever had makeup sex.  We don’t really fight.  But I like giving BJs so I do it whenever he wants (or I want, haha).

    Post # 70
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    If my partner sulked, I wouldn’t be doing anything for him!  Why would you set up that pattern?  Then he’d know that every time he sulked, he could get some.  

    Post # 72
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

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    @TheSpoons:  Then what did you mean by “I mean mad as in he hasnt gotten one in over a month and he becomes sulky and distant and quiet, then i will do it”

    Post # 73
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    We don’t do makeup sex.  And oral is just foreplay for us – wish I could do it more but it’s uncomfortable for me.

    Post # 74
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    We never have “make-up” sex. However, I love, love, love to go down on him (it’s always been a favorite activity). When we were first together he said he hadn’t had much luck with women being able to “finish” him that way and it became my personal mission to succeed in this. He’s happy I figured out how he needs it. Recently, despite his doubts that someone other than himself could pull off a successful handjob, I managed to do that, too. He has MS and he has areas of numbness from his bottom rib down.  It’s been a bit of a challenge to figure out what is best for him but we have a great sex life and we’re very open with each other.

    Post # 75
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I give BJ’s almost everytime we have sex…He loves it and when he enjoys it..i enjoy it. Plus its good foreplay lol

    Post # 76
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

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    @Cady: ” I give them whenever I feel like” …LOL I love that! 🙂

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