(Closed) How many of you had or will have a sister-in-law as a BM?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
11744 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

My brother in law (sister’s husband) is a groomsman. In addition, all of our siblings are in the wedding party, as well.

Post # 4
635 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@definitelymaybe:  My brothers wife and my sister’s boyfriend (they have been together for 7 years) are both in my wedding – as well as my Fiance sister and her husband.  I am super close with my brother’s wife and sister’s boyfriend though.  If anything I wish i could get rid of his sister from the wedding party LOL

Post # 5
13563 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I included my husband’s sister because I wanted to include her as part of my new family; on the flip side though, I wouldn’t expect to be included in her wedding when she gets married.

But I think it really depends on the relationship and how close you are with the SIL.

Post # 6
8575 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

… Lol. I’m only having 2 maids.. both are FSIL’s.. one is my fi’s sister, and the other is my brothers fiance. My brother will also be a best man.. along with fi’s brother.

Post # 7
206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I am having my SO brother’s wife. we have became friends in the 5 years SO and I have dated. My close GF’s thought it was odd that I included her in the wedding party, but like you said she will be in our life for years to come and we can look back and smile. I am also having her daughter (SO neice) as flower girl.

Post # 8
5219 posts
Bee Keeper

My brothers wife, my husbands brother, my sister and my sisters Fiance were all in our wedding, definitely a family affair!

Post # 9
1846 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My FI’s brother and sister are both in our wedding party. His sisters husband is also! But we are close to them and friends with them. His brothers wife isn’t (i don’t really like her, and we aren’t close at all). 

Post # 10
1805 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

All of our siblings are included, only my sister is married out of the bunch though so I decided to ask my bil to do a reading so he doesn’t feel left out

Post # 11
9053 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I had both my husband’s sister and her husband in our wedding party. But she married one of dh’s friends so it was that double connection. 

Post # 12
331 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Both of my brother’s wives will be bridesmaids.  We are all pretty close so I didn’t even think twice.


Post # 13
1548 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Both my sister’s husband and my FSIL’s husband are both Groomsmen and my Future Sister-In-Law is a Bridesmaid or Best Man. 

Post # 15
369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We’re only having direct siblings in our wedding party. We’re not super close to their SOs, so it’s not a big deal. Nobody is offended. If you think it will be a nice touch, go for it! For us, we already are bordering on “too many” so… LOL.

Post # 16
40 posts
  • Wedding: April 2013

I am having my SO’s sister and her husband in our wedding.

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