- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
FB caused an argument between my (then FI) now DH, bit not because of something we did but because of what one of his “friends” did.
DH and I are both super open about who we talk to, what about, ect. We use each other’s phones and leave our FB and emails open with no hesitancy. There are no secrets between us and I love it.
One night though, we were watching a movie and DH fell asleep. His phone started to go off saying he had messages on FB. Thinking it could be his mother or another family member, I opened it up. It wasnt a family member but a friend I had never met and he had never told me about. Her message was “OMG you’re engaged!?” At that point we had been engaged about a year already and had just bought our home a few months prior.
So thinking nothing of it I reply with a “yup :)”. Her reply? “why? Why would you get engaged now? Don’t you want to go out and f**k hot babes any more!?” umm… What? She just kept going on an on about how being with me was a mistake and how he should be sealing p***y elsewhere…
This girl that I had never met, never even knew he was talking to was saying all these horrible things as my DH was asleep next to me. i didn’t know where all this was coming from or what prompted this. So I scrolled back up through the convo history. My DH had been MASSIVLY flirting with her for months. Saying things like how beautiful she was and how she must have guys all over her, ect… Ok, so maybe I lied when I said it wasn’t something he did…
To say I was pissed was an understatement. Instead of doing anything to his FB, phone or him, I shut it off and walked away from him and went to watch a movie in another room until he woke up alone and confused. We had an argument as soon as he found me. I yelled an cried (really our first fight ever) and he deleted her from his FB on his own accord. we talked through trust and where the line was in flirting. Things have been good since then, but I was rip shiiiiiit