(Closed) How many past loves have you lived with before your SO/FI/DH/DW?

posted 6 years ago in Home
  • poll: How many old loves did you live with?
    Zero : (120 votes)
    69 %
    One : (39 votes)
    23 %
    Two : (9 votes)
    5 %
    Three : (4 votes)
    2 %
    Four : (1 votes)
    1 %
    Five + : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    6892 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Fiance was the only one I’ve ever lived with. We moved in together after 9 months, but didn’t get engaged until a little over 2 years after that. 🙂 I don’t know how, but we just “knew.” <– I know it’s cheesy. Undecided

    Post # 5
    Member
    9056 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I lived with a boyfriend in universitY for about six months.  I went away for school and we did long distance for a year and one day he came to visit and just didn’t leave. There was never any talk of There ever being a pending engagement and we basically lived as roommates that shared a bed and had sex. No merged finances or real long term planning. 

    MIT was different when I moved in with dh as it was clear an engagement would follow as soon as possible. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    5984 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Darling Husband was the first man that I lived with romantically. I lived with another guy but he was a friend and it was not romantic

    Post # 7
    Member
    1830 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Darling Husband is the only person I’ve ever lived with romantically, although I’ve had more male roommates than female roommates I think.   I just asked the same question of Darling Husband, as I don’t think this is something we’ve ever talked about, fully expecting the answer to be no, but the answer was yes!   Duh, he was engaged once before me so I should have assumed but it just never occurred to me!  Ah well, we’re laughing about it now and it doesn’t bother me, but I just can’t believe this has never come up in 3.5 years of being together!

    Post # 8
    Member
    1941 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I’ve had multitudes of roommates, both male and female; however, my fiance is the first person I’ve lived with that I was in a romantic relationship with. We were together almost 4 years before getting engaged, but moved in together after 5&1/2 months! I know it’s super corny, but we just kind of knew 🙂

    Post # 9
    Member
    3482 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    Darling Husband is the only one I ever actually wanted to move in with. I moved away for grad school seven months into our relationship, and we were in a LDR for a year. When I came home, we moved in together. It just felt right.

    Post # 10
    Member
    631 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I lived with my ex for almost the whole time we dated. We moved in after a couple months of dating and were together 5 years before I left him for my now Fiance.

    Post # 11
    Member
    3626 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I shouldn’t be posting on here probably, but Fiance is my first boyfriend! Sorry, I couldn’t resist.

    Post # 12
    Member
    1498 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @nineteen87:  The last 2 months that I lived with my ex, we were broken up as well and I also happened to be pregnant! (We broke up about 2 weeks before finding out I was pregnant.) Talk about and awkward situation!

    My ex and I lived together for about 2 and a half years. I did wait longer to officially live with Fiance but a lot of that had to do with having a small child. We’ve been living together about a year and a half now.

    Post # 13
    Member
    7408 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Well, I lived with my ex-husband, so I guess that counts.  And now Darling Husband.  Thats it.

    Post # 14
    Member
    7609 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I’ve had other boyfriends, but Fiance was the first one I lived with (and we got engaged before moving in).

    Post # 15
    Member
    5148 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    One, my ex-husband. (I didn’t live with him until we were married.)

    Darling Husband I lived with for 4 years before we got engaged.

    Post # 16
    Member
    11272 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    i voted 2 = 2 ex husbands.

    i have lived with my Fiance for 2.5 years now.

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