(Closed) How many people did you have at your shower?

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  • Post # 3
    5978 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We invited 50 and I think around 40 showed up. I had one big shower that involved both sides and a few friends. I guess we both have kind of large families.

    Post # 4
    5486 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    There were 50 people at my shower.

    Post # 5
    1347 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Your shower invite lists depends on how many people you invite to your wedding.

    The shower guests should also be invited wedding guests. Not every female guest needs to be invited though. For example, my husband is friends with the bride. When we attend her wedding it will be the second time i see her. I would not be invited to her shower too.

    The next part of who gets invited is based on what your hosts can afford (or you if you are throwing your own shower).

    Post # 7
    730 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    We had 22 people.  And the wedding is only 60! 

    It was a great turnout and a lot of fun.

    Post # 9
    1344 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012 - Franklin Plaza

    We had around 50 people at my shower. But I have a VERY large family (we invited over 200 guests to our wedding) and I only wanted one shower (I know some brides have multiple smaller showers).

    Post # 11
    618 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I had a few different showers.  I grew up in FL, so my mom and sister threw me one there and there were about 20 people.  FI’s family is from OH, so his mom had one there with about 20 people.  And we are currently living in GA, so a couple of girlfriends insisted on a little one here.  I was so surprised by all of the love and throught that our friends put in to them 🙂

    Post # 12
    3162 posts
    Sugar bee

    I think we invited 30 (only had 85 wedding guests total) and 24 attended. 

    Post # 13
    1943 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Mine had me and 12 guests. 14 were invited but two were unable to attend.  But our wedding was small, with only around 35 guests, so like everyone else’s, it was proportional. We all had lots of fun; it was very “me,” as my Maid/Matron of Honor knows me SO well.

    Post # 14
    744 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I think I had about 15 people at my shower, but would have probaby had more if I hadn’t rescheduled my shower due to the fact that I had just landed a new job. Either way, it was small, intimate, and really fun! I really enjoyed actually being able to talk to all of my guests! 

    Post # 15
    191 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    I’ve had two showers so far (our families live on opposite sides of the country), and both of them had 11-15 people. Part of me is kind of jealous of the big, fancy 30-50 person showers, but at the end of the day I really loved my little homespun showers! They were both so sweet and full of love.

    Post # 16
    6263 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I think we invited 50-something and about 45 people were there. 

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