(Closed) How many bf/gf have you had?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How many bf/gf have you hade?
    1 : (35 votes)
    14 %
    2 : (39 votes)
    15 %
    3 : (55 votes)
    21 %
    4 : (45 votes)
    17 %
    5-10 : (62 votes)
    24 %
    10-15 : (12 votes)
    5 %
    15-20 : (5 votes)
    2 %
    20+ : (5 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Well, what do you consider “dated”? I seriously dated 3 people before my husband. But, I probably went on something like 75 first dates with people I met online (but never saw again….so hit and miss!)

    Post # 5
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    8738 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Before my Fiance I dated 4 people seriously.

    I went on a few “dates” with other guys in college. But I was in 4 relationships that were “long term” (i.e. more than 6 months).

    First guy I dated for almost a year when I was a freshman – sophomore in high school. Mainly dated him because he showed interest in me and I found that attractive. When I realized I was only dating him because he was the first guy  who wanted to date me, we broke up.

    Then I had a LD relationship of almost a year. But we only saw each other 3 times. He and I still keep in touch.

    Third guy I started dating 2nd semester of senior year of HS. He was my 1st love. We started kind of as a “end of HS fling” because I was going across the country for college. We tried long distance, and it didn’t work.  We wouldn’t have worked long term because our goals were very different. But he still has a special place in my heart.

    Fourth guy I met freshman year of college. We dated for almost a year. Didn’t work out because he wasn’t willing to put any effort into the relationship. (i.e. if I wanted to see him, it was on his schedule, he couldn’t make time for me.)

    Then, 2nd semester sophomore year of college, I met my Fiance. We dated for 6 1/2 years prior to getting engaged, and will have been together 7 1/2 years at the time of our wedding.  It took me a little time to find him, but he is wonderful and I am so excited to be his wife.

    Post # 6
    Member
    769 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    Well, I seriously dated 3 people before I met my husband, but, like crayfish, I had a number of other dates and also dated some other guys for 3-6 months (which I don’t consider serious, I guess).

    Post # 7
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    1559 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I’m with crayfish…. I had what I would consider 3 significant relationships before Fiance, but I went on dates with LOTS of other people before Fiance… some were just first dates, a few were 2-3 week flings freshman year that quickly went sour, and there was even one guy who I “dated” for about 4 months but didn’t really consider significant. 

    Fiance is by far my longest relationship, and the only one to make it past a year, let alone 4 years! 

    Post # 8
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    1030 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Hmm good question. I easily have been out on 75-100 first dates. Not sure what “bf/gf” means though.. I had one serious bf before Fiance (we dated for two years) and multiple 3-6 month relationships in between.

    Post # 9
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    1335 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I wish you had “0” as a choice, so I wouldn’t feel so alone haha. Embarassed  My Fiance is the only boyfriend I have ever had–I didn’t date in high school and I met my Fiance in the beginning of college and we have been together ever since! 

    Post # 10
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    10288 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I only had one serious boyfriend before Fiance and I dated him for about a year and a half. I started dating when I was 17 then met Fiance when I was 19 (I’m almost 25 now). I’ve technically dated 3 other guys in my lifetime but I don’t really consider a 3-4 month fling a “relationship”. Not to mention they were all tools that I would prefer to forget about! =)

    Post # 11
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    2090 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I know everyone’s definition of “dating” is different…..I would say only one of my relationships was truly “serious” before my husband, but I dated several others (like, dating for months-year or so, going on vacation with, etc.), and went out on dates with plenty of others.

    My first real boyfriend was a tool/abusive/manipulative, and I dated the guy after him for over a year. I don’t think it was ever really serious to me, because I really only dated him because he was so nice to me – swept me off my feet. We didn’t really have much in common and there was no chemistry there (there was for him, which I felt badly about, but none for me). When I “grew up”, I ended things.

    The only realtionship I consider serious is the guy I lived with for a while, and who I said “I love you” to. He and my husband are the only men I’ve said “I love you” to. Both times, we had been together for over a year before the “I love you’s” came out.

    In between the two serious relationships were plenty of other dates, and some relationships, but I don’t consider any of them serious dating. They just were…what they were. Hope this makes sense.

    Post # 13
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    1335 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    @SweetRose2011: No worries! I’m such a dork! I think my Fiance counts as the one Boyfriend or Best Friend, since you didn’t say “other”. Oops!

    Post # 14
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    35 posts
    Newbee

    Boyfriend or Best Friend is my first SERIOUS relationship. We made it past the 6 month mark, one year mark and the one and half year mark!!! Working towards forever. lol

    But I’ve had 5 other BF’s. All of these relationships ended by the 6 month mark, never made it to 7 months.

     

    Post # 15
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    2280 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Two. My first boyfriend I dated for 3 1/2 years. My fiance and I have been together for two years now. I really only needed one boyfriend to figure out what I needed in a partner/husband. 🙂

    Post # 16
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    332 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    I had 4 “boyfirends” before my hubby. But 3 of them were in high school, so I don’t know how much they count.

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