- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
I honestly lost track. Or was it that I just didn’t keep track after a while? Probably the latter.
I will say: I don’t know if this is “normal” or not, but my relationships would usually go – hey i like you : well, i like you to! : lets date each other, no one else! : ok! sounds awesome! : and then two to three weeks later I would usually end it because of either just not seeing us long-term or some character flaw (like, oh, being a pothead comes to mind). (and yes, sometimes i would get dumped as well, I didn’t do all the heart breaking).
So I don’t know if they count as “boyfriends” because we were exclusive or because if they only count as “casually dating partners” because of the length of the “relationship” ? …Meh. Semantics, really.
I will say this: I have dated 3 guys in my life longer than a month. First one was my first boyfriend, 2nd one was a super serious one that had us talking about marriage and kids and the whole nine yards – at WAY too young an age …. and then my Fiance is the 3rd one.
After multiple years-long string of losers, I just knew he was going to be different, and I could honestly see myself having gray hair and saggy boobs lying next to his droopy ass and white chest hair when we were both old & decrepit and being totally happy about it. And whaddya know….I was right! 🙂