(Closed) How many bf/gf have you had?

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How many bf/gf have you hade?
    1 : (35 votes)
    14 %
    2 : (39 votes)
    15 %
    3 : (55 votes)
    21 %
    4 : (45 votes)
    17 %
    5-10 : (62 votes)
    24 %
    10-15 : (12 votes)
    5 %
    15-20 : (5 votes)
    2 %
    20+ : (5 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 47
    1684 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I honestly lost track. Or was it that I just didn’t keep track after a while? Probably the latter.

    I will say: I don’t know if this is “normal” or not, but my relationships would usually go – hey i like you : well, i like you to! : lets date each other, no one else! : ok! sounds awesome! : and then two to three weeks later I would usually end it because of either just not seeing us long-term or some character flaw (like, oh, being a pothead comes to mind). (and yes, sometimes i would get dumped as well, I didn’t do all the heart breaking).

    So I don’t know if they count as “boyfriends” because we were exclusive or because if they only count as “casually dating partners” because of the length of the “relationship” ? …Meh. Semantics, really.

    I will say this: I have dated 3 guys in my life longer than a month. First one was my first boyfriend, 2nd one was a super serious one that had us talking about marriage and kids and the whole nine yards – at WAY too young an age …. and then my Fiance is the 3rd one.

    After multiple years-long string of losers, I just knew he was going to be different, and I could honestly see myself having gray hair and saggy boobs lying next to his droopy ass and white chest hair when we were both old & decrepit and being totally happy about it. And whaddya know….I was right! 🙂

    Post # 48
    161 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Three major boyfriends.

    Post # 49
    389 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I only had one long-term “serious” relationship before meeting my current fiance.  Apparently our relationship is the only long-term serious one he’s had…should that concern me?!  We both had a lot of “hook-up only” relationships with people when we were young, though.

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