(Closed) How many serious relationships did you have before meeting your current SO?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
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  • Post # 31
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    Bee Keeper

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    bluesparkles:  I had dated my ex for quite some time, but our relationship had started it’s decline in 2011, it wasn’t until 2012 we finally called it quits and ended the relationship for both of our sakes.  We talked about marriage and kids, but he was my first love, and honestly a more immature love, he was older and he was set in his ways in some areas, and he was more established in certain areas.  When we called it quits for good in 2012, I decided to focus on me, lo and behold I met my current husband early 2013 and fell in love.  We are now married with a daughter.  This relationship is far better than the other one, bu it’s more just we each had our one serious relationship and grew up and were ready to settle down when we met each other.

    Post # 32
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    I had 1 “serious” relationship before my fiancé. I put serious in quotes because that relationship started in 8th grade. Yes, we dated for over a year, but still…

    I started dating my fiancé when we were 16 and now have been together for 7 years. We will be getting married next June. 

    Post # 33
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    Newbee

    i had two previous relationships before I met my futrue hubby. I’m 25 he’s 34 and we met when I was 23 🙂

    Post # 34
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    We started dating at 17. We both had no previous serious relationships. We’re now 24! 🙂

    Post # 35
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    what do yuou mean by “serious”? previous engagement?

    Post # 36
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    Blushing bee

    I met Fiance when I was 20 and he was 28. I’m 24 now and getting married in less than 2 months (yayy!!). I had no serious relationships before him although I did briefly live with another man(boy, really) at 18.

    Post # 37
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I had some relationships in HS and college, but nothing was ever really serious – as they only lasted 3-4 months usually. It wasn’t until I was 24/25 that I dated anyone seriously.

    That ex and I only dated a little over a year, but we had known each other for years and our relationship was serious from the start. I can consider him my first love, so the breakup was pretty bad. Then a few years later, I dated another guy for a little over a year, but that should have been done right away as he sitll had some growing up to do (he was 5 years younger than me). I met Fiance a few months before I turned 30.

    Post # 38
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I was never in a really serious relationship before him. He was in one that lasted two years. We are 24 and 26 now.

    Post # 39
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    Excluding my high school boyfriend (who I was with on and off for 2 years), I had 2 serious relationships (college boyfriend, and another post-college) before I met my Fiance. I was 23, almost 24, when we met. He was 30, almost 31.

    Post # 40
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    Busy bee

    I’ve had one other serious relationship and many casual ones. 

    Post # 41
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    Newbee

    No serious relationships before I met my husband at 18 and he was 24 at that time. He had one serious relationship before meeting me.

    Post # 42
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2004

    I was in a 2 1/2 year relationship before I met my husband just 5 months after we broke up.

    Post # 43
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    Helper bee

    2 serious relationships: 4 years & 5 years 

    i met Fiance when I was 29 🙂 

    Post # 44
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014 - Loft

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    bluesparkles:  I first met my Fiance when I was 19 however we didn’t start dating until I was 23. I am 25 now and prior to being with Fiance I was in a serious relationship for 4 years from 19 to 23.

    Post # 45
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    Busy bee

    I met him when I was 15. I had had one serious relationship before that. I had also dated a boy for about three years, but I don’t consider it all that serious because we never had sex or talked about marriage etc. But I fell hard for my first love and lost my virginity to him. He dumped be after cheating on me. Technically, my Fiance is my rebound lol. We’ve been together for over 10 years, since we were 16.

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