(Closed) How many sexual partners have you had?

posted 4 months ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How many?
    None : (2 votes)
    1 %
    One : (53 votes)
    22 %
    2 - 10 : (92 votes)
    39 %
    11 - 20 : (45 votes)
    19 %
    21 - 30 : (18 votes)
    8 %
    31 - 40 : (15 votes)
    6 %
    40+ : (11 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 76
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    1683 posts
    Bumble bee

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    soexcited123 :  nowhere in my post did I say that people who don’t have many sex partners lack a social life. I think you are reading into my explicit wording too literally and assuming a few things. I don’t want to continue to threadjack and keep clarifying myself so yeah…. Didnt say that. Didn’t mean that or to judge or not judge or to praise or not praise. No criticism intended or expressed.

    Post # 78
    Member
    1378 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2019

    I think it was around 17. Centred on a bit of a spiral in the 2 years before I met my husband at 24. From ages 17-22 it was 4 total.

    I definitely enjoyed my single years, living in the city CBD, working in hospitality and generally just loving life. 

    Sometimes I miss it. But then other times I’m like “bitch you’re in bed by 9pm on a Friday you can’t HANDLE that life anymore”.

    And also you know, loving my husband and all

    Post # 79
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    1378 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2019

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    DrAtkins : 

    “Hoe into a housewife”

    ahahahahaha love it 

    Post # 80
    Member
    1953 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I’m so glad we live in a time where this information DOESNT MATTER. 

    Post # 81
    Member
    116 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Haha, I was a teen in the 70’s and totally enjoyed that sexually free time.  I was always loyal while married, 20 years the first time, now 10 years.  While dating, I totally was a serious player, and enjoyed the sexual variety (safely).  So my numbers are quire high, sorry, not sorry.

    Post # 82
    Member
    1535 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2021 - Kauai, HI

    More than 20.  I married my first.  Spend a good part of 2009 making myself feel better after I got left for a 19 y.o. Then was normal again.  If I could take out 2009 it would be about 5 including all 3 husbands. 

    Post # 83
    Member
    105 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2020

    30+. Also hoe to housewife 😉

    Post # 84
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    216 posts
    Helper bee

    I’ve only had 3 relationships (all serious/long term) so those are my 3 partners (and that includes my boyfriend who I see a future with). I didn’t end up dating until my early twenties (I’ve never been good at initiating and no one else did until then, idk) and since then have been in said relationships. I get enough anxiety about just meeting people and dating, plus I tend to want to feel decently committed – I’m not surprised I didn’t have shorter dating periods or flings! But I certainly know people that range from 0 to over 20? As long as you are safe and consensual about it, I don’t care what you do! 

    Post # 85
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    511 posts
    Busy bee

    All of them.  IMMA HOAR.

    Post # 86
    Member
    939 posts
    Busy bee

    only 3, but I wasted a lot of time in highschool dating the same guy, then one random guy I saw casually for a while then my husband. The number would be a LOT higher except I met my husband when I was 21, I would not have survived celibate for more than a few months at a time lmao

    Post # 87
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    359 posts
    Helper bee

    Only 1 for me 

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