Post # 1
OK, I made this poll which was difficult!
Anyways, if you want to answer go ahead. How many sexual partners have you been with and how many has you FI/hubby/SO been with? Just to be clear I am talking about people you have had sex with, not makeout sessions, lol You can say not sure if you don’t know about your significant other.
Me: One other person and Fiance (2)
Fiance: Two other people and me (3)
Post # 3
Me: Fiance = 1
Fiance: 3 Other People and Me = 4
Post # 4
We’ve each only been with each other… we started dating at 14 and never broke up!
Post # 5
You should add a poll to this! Haha. The more options, the better!
Post # 6
2 for each of us. 1 and then each other.
Post # 7
Me: 2 others, and Fiance (3)
Fiance: Just me. = )
Post # 8
@virginia – I agree with you!
Post # 9
You could do increments at the higher numbers. Like,
Haha, those are kind of random I guess.
Post # 10
I like lilyfaith’s polll – that way someone doesn’t have to say 247 if they don’t want to. 😉
Post # 11
Oh sheesh! LOL talk about personal! Me & Fiance have been with about the same number of partners. 5 on average! 🙂 I got started when I was 13!! Crazy!!!! Luckily I didn’t turn crazy!
Post # 12
I have been with 2. My ex who I was serious with for 5 years (almost half of high school and almost all of college) and then my future hubby was my second!
My fiance has been with 8. (he has the assortment of college hookups and a few girlfriends)
Never really been concerned about the difference in our numbers. Would any of ya’ll care about your fiance having many more partners than you?
Post # 13
@ artsprout – no, definitely not.
I have a few, less than 10, more than 5… all of which were ‘relationships’ and I’ve never had a one night stand or random hookup. I don’t know FI’s exact number (don’t want to) but it’s less than 5.
Post # 14
@artsprout.love-I would only care if it was a MUCH higher number than me lol
My bf has been with 2 more people than I have but they were girlfriends, I just dont know how I would feel about him hooking up with random girls. It works out though because he’s not like that and neither am I!
Post # 15
I am glad that I’ve had *some* sexual experience with men other than my Fiance because I know how good it is with him!! I feel confident that we’re a perfect match, sexually, and that gives me a real peace of mind. I know he feels the same way too. There a HUGE difference between sex with someone and sex with someone who is compatible with you on a sexual level… But anyways, i’ve been a very happy and satisfied girl since I started dating Fiance 4 years ago.:)
Post # 16
@artsprout: I wouldn’t care if my Fiance had been with more women that I had men. Honestly, the past is the past & you could’ve just went through a stage or hung out with different people then. As long as your man’s good to you & doesn’t do you wrong that’s all that matters to me! 🙂