(Closed) How many sexual partners?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How many partners have you been with and how many has your FI been with?
    We're both virgins : (41 votes)
    10 %
    I'm a virgin, SO is not : (18 votes)
    4 %
    He's a virgin, I'm not : (9 votes)
    2 %
    Me: 1-5 SO: 1-5 : (134 votes)
    33 %
    Me: 5-10 SO: 5-10 : (26 votes)
    6 %
    Me: 10+ SO: 10+ : (17 votes)
    4 %
    Me: 1-5 SO: 5-10 : (25 votes)
    6 %
    Me: 5-10 SO: 1-5 : (43 votes)
    11 %
    Me: 10+ SO: 5-10 : (12 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5921 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Me: Fiance = 1

    Fiance: 3 Other People and Me = 4

    Post # 4
    Member
    5262 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We’ve each only been with each other… we started dating at 14 and never broke up!

    Post # 5
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    1897 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    You should add a poll to this!  Haha.  The more options, the better!  

    Post # 6
    Member
    7777 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    2 for each of us. 1 and then each other.

    Post # 7
    Member
    5497 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Me: 2 others, and Fiance (3)

    Fiance: Just me. = )

    Post # 8
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    3575 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    @virginia – I agree with you!

    Post # 9
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    5262 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    You could do increments at the higher numbers. Like,

    1

    2

    3

    4

    5-7

    8-10

    11-15

    Haha, those are kind of random I guess. 

    Post # 10
    Member
    3125 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    I like lilyfaith’s polll – that way someone doesn’t have to say 247 if they don’t want to. 😉

    Post # 11
    Member
    2000 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    Oh sheesh! LOL talk about personal! Me & Fiance have been with about the same number of partners. 5 on average! 🙂 I got started when I was 13!! Crazy!!!! Luckily I didn’t turn crazy!

    Post # 12
    Member
    257 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I have been with 2. My ex who I was serious with for 5 years (almost half of high school and almost all of college) and then my future hubby was my second!

    My fiance has been with 8. (he has the assortment of college hookups and a few girlfriends)

    Never really been concerned about the difference in our numbers. Would any of ya’ll care about your fiance having many more partners than you?

    Post # 13
    Member
    485 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    @ artsprout – no, definitely not.

    I have a few, less than 10, more than 5… all of which were ‘relationships’ and I’ve never had a one night stand or random hookup. I don’t know FI’s exact number (don’t want to) but it’s less than 5.

    Post # 14
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    3281 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    @artsprout.love-I would only care if it was a MUCH higher number than me lol

    My bf has been with 2 more people than I have but they were girlfriends, I just dont know how I would feel about him hooking up with random girls. It works out though because he’s not like that and neither am I!

    Me-2

    Him-4

    Post # 15
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    1897 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I am glad that I’ve had *some* sexual experience with men other than my Fiance because I know how good it is with him!!  I feel confident that we’re a perfect match, sexually, and that gives me a real peace of mind.  I know he feels the same way too.  There a HUGE difference between sex with someone and sex with someone who is compatible with you on a sexual level… But anyways, i’ve been a very happy and satisfied girl since I started dating Fiance 4 years ago.:)

    Post # 16
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    2000 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    @artsprout: I wouldn’t care if my Fiance had been with more women that I had men. Honestly, the past is the past & you could’ve just went through a stage or hung out with different people then. As long as your man’s good to you & doesn’t do you wrong that’s all that matters to me! 🙂

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