(Closed) How many times a month do you visit your (future) in laws

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How many times do you see your in laws or future in laws
    None : (21 votes)
    43 %
    1-4 times a month : (23 votes)
    47 %
    5-8 times a month : (3 votes)
    6 %
    8 or more times a month : (0 votes)
    Living with them at the moment, so every day : (2 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    1523 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    None, they live on the other side of the country!

    Post # 5
    4693 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    We see both of our families upwards of 5 times a month, but neither of us feels obligated to see each others family every single time we visit. He’s fine with it if he goes to see his parents alone and I’m fine with it if he doesn’t come with me to see mine. 🙂

    Post # 6
    2651 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    Well, I am over their house everyday, but I think I actually SEE them once  a week.  They know I am there though, I’ll bring milk, or cookies or soda over for them.

    Post # 7
    4693 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    My vote was for 5 to 8 times but when you changed the poll options it moved my vote to 1 to 4!

    Post # 8
    1351 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Living with them at the moment. So every.single.day….

    Don’t get me wrong, we’re greatful and it’s really helping us save for bar exam expenses and a down payment. Just some days are harder than others!

    Post # 9
    207 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    1-4 times a month.  But mostly his mom comes here.  His parents were having issues and my Fiance doesn’t want to deal with his dad and can’t understand why his mom is still putting up with his dads bs.  So she comes to see us because we enjoy each others company but Fiance doesn’t like to go there anymore.

    Post # 10
    535 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    DH’s parents live 5 minutes from us, so we visit them about 3 times a week, so definitely more than 8 times a month.  We used to live with them, too.  I don’t mind because I love them to pieces!


    Post # 11
    5118 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Mr.ND still lives in his folks’ basement, so when I visit him, I see them. With our dance lessons mid-week, I think I spend 4-5 nights a week there. Like @Mrs.Elivs: said, it’s great for bills, but I think the space after we’re married when we’ve got our own place will be great for the NDBee-IL relationship 😉

    Post # 12
    10714 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Once maybe twice every 2 months. Definitely more than I see my mom.

    Post # 13
    7609 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    We go over there for dinner twice a month on average.

    I wouldn’t say your bf is visiting excessively….I’m very close to my family, too.  I prefer when my Fiance comes with me, but he doesn’t always have to.

    Post # 14
    229 posts
    Helper bee

    I see them about once every 2 months. They live an hour from me, as opposed to 30 min from my SO– so SO sees them about 1-2x per month without me. 

    Post # 15
    196 posts
    Blushing bee

    We see our relatives and inlaws maybe once per year.  Neither of us is interested in seeing them more often than that.  We speak to our own folks on the phone probably once a month and email them more often.

    Post # 16
    302 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We usually see my mother once a week and his mom either every week or every other week. My mom lives pretty close so it’s easy to see her. His mom lives farther upstate so we may not go every week.


    His father lives really far so we almost never see him. I’m very happy about that. So is Fiance.

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