(Closed) How many times do you think you'll be a maid of honor?

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
8489 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

None. =/ I’m only super close to two people (my BM’s) and neither of them wants to have a big wedding. One doesnt ever want to get married, and the other just wants to elope and then have a reception in a restaurant.

Post # 4
4497 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

None. I have been asked once, but I declined. Honestly I don’t really want to be in anyone’s wedding because (and I know this just sounds awful) I don’t want to ruin their pictures with my wheelchair, which I consider kind of an eyesore and distracting in photos :-/ So yeah… I don’t plan to be in anyone’s wedding unless the friend absolutely insists.

Otherwise then I think I would probably have been a MOH for 3-4 weddings. I am happy being a guest 🙂

Post # 5
8469 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@HonoraryNerd:  I’m hoping only the one time, I hate being in wedding parties.

Post # 6
9556 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’ve been MOH once and been in 2 wedding that didn’t have an MOH. I’m currently about to be a bridesmaid in another wedding. And most of my close friends and family are now married. I’ll probably never be in a wedding again, maybe as a bridesmaid. But who knows.

Post # 7
3417 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

I won’t be maid of honor.  My best friend who is my maid of honor is having her sister as her maid of honor.  My other 2 bridesmaids are already married.  Unless my brothers girlfriend has me as her MOH (which I doubt since she probably has friends who she is closer with) than I won’t even have been MOH.

Post # 8
1904 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Franklin Plaza

Zero. Every single one of my girl friends have sisters that will be MOH. The only person I can think of is my SIL, but I’m not very close to her. She has other friends that I’m sure she would ask before me and at this point I am not sure if she even wants to get married.

Always a bridemaid, never a maid of honor. Sigh. 😉

Post # 9
1460 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@HonoraryNerd:  I have to MOH’s right now, I’m certain I’ll be there MOH’s when they get married. After that, I will probably be a bridesmaid a few time’s between all my single friends and my FI’s little sister. 

Post # 10
842 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@HonoraryNerd:  I think I’ll be my sister’s MOH, and maybeI think two of my friends.

Post # 11
165 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I was one this summer, and I swore that I’d never do it again, except for my only sister. Hated it. BUT at least with my sister, I can be blunt with her lol

Post # 12
9256 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

I think 0.  I only have one sibling and she’s already married with no wedding party (I did the same thing – wedding parties just seemed too fussy to both of us).  My couple best friends are either married with no wedding parties as well, or with big wedding parties with no MOH.  So I’m off the hook!

Post # 13
1592 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I was twice for my two maids of honor. I don’t imagine being so again. Maybe I’ll be a bm when my little bro gets married but he’s single.

I guess I could see myself in a few weddings on FI’s side but yeah, no more MOH for me.

Post # 14
3028 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

At this point, never. I’m 43 and haven’t ever been a BM!

Post # 15
9692 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@HonoraryNerd:  One, and I’ve already done it (my sister). I was also a BM for a very close friend and I know that will be it. 

It’s easy when all your friends are married 😛

Post # 16
1110 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Probably just once – for my sister.  She was my MOH and I’m pretty sure I would be hers too.

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