(Closed) How many times?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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95 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I have lost count! No, I would say about 6 or 7 times. Now I am just fed up!

Hope it’s not too long for you.

Post # 4
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3305 posts
Sugar bee

about twice now- so I have put the actual day out of my head. He will do it when he is ready.

Post # 5
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4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Twice before, our anniversary in December and this past Christmas season.  The third is probably coming up here at the end of the month.  We’re going away for our Valentines celebration for the weekend a bit early.

Post # 6
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870 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

None. Three times my head knew he wasn’t going to propose but my heart thought it was a “perfect time” to do it. So I wasn’t lead on or hinted by him, but I personally had a teeeeny little flame of hope that it might happen anyway!

Post # 8
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3587 posts
Sugar bee

Once, when I thought my 28th birthday would be perfect, but I thought that up. I’ve only gotten hints once and that was recently. If it doesn’t happen then, I doubt I’ll be disappointed because that day isn’t something we really go all out for anyway…but if he did do it that day, it’d surprise the hell out of me because of that reason.LOL

Post # 9
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870 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@laurana:

I know some bees have mentioned their guys say certain things to throw them off and keep the proposal a surprise. Is it possible that’s what he’s doing? Could he be saying that finances make it unlikely but maybe he’s got a secret ring fund you don’t know about? There’s always a chance it still happens, but if a valid surprise bill came up (medical, car, etc.) maybe give him a little extra time?

Post # 10
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7052 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

There were two dates I thought were going to be the big day.

1)our trip to Jamaica in March of 2009.  Would’ve been perfect!

2)My 40th birthday, March 2009 again.  But…not so perfect b/c I actually had the stomach flu on that day.

The actual date was Dec. 5, 2009 and it WAS PERFECT!

Don’t get down.  Having wonderful days and memories is part of your love story!  It will happen when the time is right.

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