(Closed) How many times/week do you have sex?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How many times do you have sex per week
    1 : (165 votes)
    21 %
    2-3 : (314 votes)
    39 %
    4-5 : (109 votes)
    14 %
    5+ : (63 votes)
    8 %
    rarely ie. < 1 time per week : (153 votes)
    19 %
  • Post # 47
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    923 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I voted 4-5, but I think we are really more like 3-4.

    The first year and a half of our relationship we were at least once a day.  Now it’s been 3 1/2 years and we’ve slowed down a bit, but I think both of us are pretty satisfied.

    Post # 48
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    915 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We have been together almost 2 years and married for 3 months, but we rarely have sex. It’s usually about once a week if we’re having a decent or average week. It’s difficult cuz my Husband works the graveyard shift and I work daylight hours at an office so it never seems like a good time. I also haven’t been in the mood due to stress and depression. I have been struggling with trying to lose weight and winter blues.

    Post # 49
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    735 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2018

    I voted 4-5

    depends lol 🙂

    Post # 50
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    3361 posts
    Sugar bee

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    @Ugoob: same here ! But we do it anytime the mood comes! About 2-3 times a week these days as we are both feeling a little body conscious… It usually varies between 3 and 6. 

    Post # 51
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    1132 posts
    Bumble bee

    hmmm…when we had the same schedule it was every night or minimum of 4x per week. Now, my SO works 5pm-3am. I work 8:30am-5:30pm, so obviously we miss eachother in passing lol. He is off Mon-Tues-Weds so those are our nights to get it all in lol. So a minimum of 3 days a week. If I’m not too tired, I’ll stay awake for him but that’s a rare occasion bc my job is stressful and I am always so tired. Weve been living together 2 years, together almost 3, no kids yet. i definitely feel like we dont do it enough…but its our schedule’s fault…boo 🙁

    Post # 52
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    273 posts
    Helper bee

    I am SHOCKED to see that so many people have sex less than 1 time per week! I should show this to my bf loll

    Post # 53
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    399 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I feel I can’t vote in the poll either. We go through cycles, and when I say “we” I mostly mean “me.” When I’m stressed with school and work I have nearly no libido and 1/2 times a week is about as much as I can handle. But when I feel relaxed and happy its more like 5-6 times a week. I’m pretty sure Fiance would be happy with 6+ every week lol.

    Post # 54
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    750 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Normally once or twice a day, with some exceptions depending on our schedules or how we’re feeling, so… quite a bit? More than average, let’s just say that, haha. We’ve been together (and living together) for 4 years. 

    Post # 55
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    195 posts
    Blushing bee

    we used to everyday!  we’ve been living together for 8 months now.  Lately he’s been too tired and passes out as soon as we go to bed.  Now it’s probably 2-3 times a week.. not enough for me =(

    Post # 56
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    13 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: August 2012
    Post # 57
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    4687 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

    I can pretty much say for fact when you live together it is MUCH LESS frequent!! Amirite?????

    Post # 58
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    1344 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    On average i’d say 1-2 times a week.

    We’ve been together for almost 5 years (living together for over 4). I am happy with our sex life, he’d probably like it a liiittle more often. That’s only sex though, he does get bj’s every now and then too.

    In the beginning it was up to 3 times a day, before we had so much responsibility. If he’s got a busy week at work (80ish hrs a week) we might not have sex at all for a week or so, but then other times we might have sex 3-4 times a week. 1-2 is our average though.

    Post # 59
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    484 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    It really fluctuates for us, but I’d say we are on the low end… 1x/week is probably the average. However, on days that we do get busy (schedules finally jive) we usually go a couple rounds. So if we’re talking days, I’d say 1/week but if we’re talking times, I’d say more like 2-3. 

    Post # 60
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    3415 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

    2-3 times per week. SO would like it everyday lol. My libedio has calmed down in the last year or so. I feel bad because unless he initiates I’m not usuallly in the mood. So I just make sure to do it enough that it keeps him satisfied. Not saying I NEVER want it but it is further and fewer between what it used to be. We’ve been together for 3 years.

    Post # 61
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    5 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Fiance and I have been together four years. We average 4 times per weeks and that’s without living together and opposite work schedules (he works nights and I’m on days). I could see it being everyday once we live together. 

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