(Closed) How many times/week do you have sex?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How many times do you have sex per week
    1 : (165 votes)
    21 %
    2-3 : (314 votes)
    39 %
    4-5 : (109 votes)
    14 %
    5+ : (63 votes)
    8 %
    rarely ie. < 1 time per week : (153 votes)
    19 %
  • Post # 62
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    We’ve been together 3 years. I voted 5+ because minimum is typically 5 times in the week. Some days we are just too tired with me working night shifts and him working mornings. But overall it’s very frequent. We both are very happy with the way things are.

    Post # 63
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

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    @lealorali:  FI and I have been living together for the last 2 1/2 years and it hasn’t gotten any less frequent since moving in. In fact it got more frequent. What did slow things down slightly was conflicting work schedules but it only slowed down the extra rounds

    Post # 64
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    we have it at lest once a day. we do it every morning before he goes to work. but on weekends we do it about 2-3 times a day.we had a LDR for 18 months & he just came back 9months ago so we’re making up for lost time 🙂 

    Post # 65
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

    That’s so nice!

    Post # 66
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    81 posts
    Worker bee

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    @Ugoob:  SO and I have the same mixed up schedule! im not feeling so sexy in the A.M. but we’re both out like a light in the P.M.!! 

    Post # 67
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    TOTALLY depends.  For the first several months of our marriage, we used NFP to avoid pregnancy…so, depending on where I was at in my cycle/my fertility signs, some weeks it wouldn’t happen at all, other weeks were pretty busy.  😉

    After we decided to NTNT, probably 2-3 times a week.  And now that I’m pregnant, it still fluctuates quite a bit!

    Post # 68
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    Buzzing bee

    I voted for 4-5, but thats is the closest estimate… it varies due to a few circumstances, like  if I have hadseizures in the past week(obviously that puts me WAY out of the mood) and if its during hockey season for my SO. With those 2 variables, it goes down to about 2. Hockey season can wipe him out, if he has 2 games in a day, plus working beforehand. It definately has increased after living together, because there are no roomates or parents to walk in on us, or hear us >.>

    Post # 69
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    We’re tired all the time, but it mostly depends on how much we’ve had to do during the week. It’s usually probably 2-3

    Post # 70
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I have a fairly unusual schedule being in a long distance relationship. When we’re together it’s usually 2-4 times a day, everyday. But that’s probably largley because we go for months without being with each other and skyping being our only means of communication.

    Post # 71
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    I would love more but work has us on opposite schedules. We barely see each other, nevermind having time to be intimate.

    Work this week took away the one day we have together. Sigh.

    Post # 72
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    2-3….I wish more, but with our schedules it does not always work out. Plus I am pregnant, and in those first weeks, being nauseated does not scream out for sexy time, haha. I’m finishing up my first trimester though, so it’s starting to come back. 😉

    Post # 73
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    Blushing bee

    Really, it depends on the week. Some weeks we may only get it on three times, but others four or five times. If it were up to me, we’d have sex at least once a day and more on weekends, but SO can’t keep up with me.

    I have to say, though, our sex frequency has noticably dropped now that Halo season is in full force.

    Post # 74
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    We have been together about 3.5 years and it’s probably about 2-3 times per week.

    Post # 75
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    Usually 1-2 times per week. We are both so busy and tired, we both training athletes currently for a tri-athalon. 

    Whem were aren’t training usually 3-4 times.

    Post # 77
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    At least once everyday more in weekends is been this way for about 2 years since we living together I hope this won’t change.

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