(Closed) How many times/week do you have sex?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How many times do you have sex per week
    1 : (165 votes)
    21 %
    2-3 : (314 votes)
    39 %
    4-5 : (109 votes)
    14 %
    5+ : (63 votes)
    8 %
    rarely ie. < 1 time per week : (153 votes)
    19 %
  • Post # 76
    1651 posts
    Bumble bee

    weekends only – not married yet – he has his place, I got mine. 

    Post # 77
    269 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    At the moment about once every two weeks. It gets me down as I would do it twice a day if I could – Fiance just doesn’t have as high a drive as I do and I hate feeling rejected so I’ve stopped pushing it. When it does happen it’s amazing, so it’s worth the wait. 

    Post # 78
    681 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    Is there a reason this thread got bumped years later?

    Post # 79
    3107 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2016 - Surfer\'s Beach, Grand Cayman

    3-5 per week on average. Usually around every other day. 

    Post # 80
    28 posts
    • Wedding: June 2010

    We fluctuate a lot. Typically we have sex at least twice a week. Sometimes we have sex almost every day of the week. Sometimes, we don’t have sex for a week and a half (rare). I love sex, in fact I’m more horny than he is. I am always down for a little boot knockin at any given time. Even when I am sick lol!

    Post # 81
    18 posts
    • Wedding: April 2015

    4-5 I voted for 🙂

    Post # 82
    509 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    Almost 16 yrs together. Usually 3_4 times a week. I have two jobs, he is disable, and we have small kids

    Post # 83
    681 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    we have been together seven years, we have two children. A seven year old and a baby. Married two years.

    every day (apart from aunt flows visit).

    we have lived with family, shared a bed with the oldest when she was scared, taken vacations with family.

    sometimes we have to bee very creative. The baby shared our room for the first so months after she was born). But every day. I guess our drives are high. He initiates and I just never say no. Even if I’m not in the mood it doesn’t take much for me to get in the mood. I mean its my husband and I really enjoy the act so why not? So we do. Its kind of an unspoken agreement that we only say no if we are really sick, like fevere or severe migraine. And even then…

    everyone is different but this works for us. I guess DHs drive is slightly higher though, I can only remember like two instances where he “called in sick” because he was just that tired and already half asleep.

    me, I’ve said no quite a bit compared to him. Like once maybe twice a month and that’s just because I get super migraines.

    I get up at 5am and the kids dont even go to sleep until 9pm and we have to wind down after that but it still happens.


    Post # 84
    2127 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2019

    We don’t live together. If I stay at his for a week then it has been known to be 10+. I would happily do it every damn day, as much as possible. His drive isn’t as high and he’d be happy with 2-3 times a week. We usually just spend weekends together at the moment so it’s probably about twice a week. I hate it. Not enough for me!

    Post # 85
    22 posts
    • Wedding: April 2014

    2-3 times per week

    Post # 86
    196 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: Victoria Wedding Chapel

    It depends. He works M-F 8AM to 10PM. Unless he has the night off and we’re particularly up for it, we don’t have sex during the week. He’s usually exhausted and we just go to bed. A lot of times we’ll have sex Saturday or Sunday or both. We probably average about twice a week.

    Post # 87
    3310 posts
    Sugar bee

    Usually every day,  sometimes twice. 

    Post # 88
    2117 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Everyday – sometimes multiple times. The only time we won’t if one of us is sick or I’m on my monthlies. The longest we have gone without is 10 days due to an extended aunt flow and it almost killed me (although I was very generous in other ways during that time)

    Post # 89
    348 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2017 - Combermere Abbey

    Usually is everyday or every other day, and sometimes more than once a day! But when it gets really busy/stressful at work/uni and ESPECIALLY when a deadline is coming up then the sex goes down to 2-3 times a week. 

    Post # 90
    1953 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    A couple of times one week, nothing for two weeks, six times the next week…it varies. We’re both okay with it. I prefer to do it late at night, right before we go to bed. On very rare occasions when neither of us can sleep we’ll use it to tire us out 😉

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