How much did you drink at your wedding?

posted 3 years ago in Reception
Post # 31
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I got drunk. Whoops. I kept it together through the wedding/reception, but I was pretty sloppy (understatement) by the after party. 

Post # 32
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016 - St. John\'s Lutheran Church

I had a single beer, haha. I don’t really enjoy being drunk and I wanted to make sure I remembered every little detail of my day. I did have one mimosa in the morning, and I also had one beer at the “after party” (which consisted of the bridal party hanging out in my living room) but I was not tipsy at any point.

Post # 33
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 29th, 2016

sassybeee :  We had a morning wedding and a brunch reception, so just a mimosa at brunch and a shot of sambuca (Italian tradition). 

Post # 34
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Bumble Beekeeper

sassybeee :  one mimosa getting ready and then a few glasses of prosecco at the reception. I only drank bubbles because it’s a happy buzz without being drunk plus a champagne glass looks prettier in photos and didn’t risk staining my dress if I spilled lol. Whatever you drink use a glass – nothing looks less classy than a bride with a bud light can in her hand. 

Post # 35
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

Had 2 mimosas getting ready. A nip off DH’s flask during portraits. Hot chocolate with peppermint schnapps at the ceremony. And champagne after dinner for toasting. So not much. I’m not a big drinker. Mostly just had enough to give me a little warmth during our cold portraits and ceremony! Also had more whiskey when Darling Husband and I got to our suite. 

Post # 36
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

sassybeee : I had a couple / few glasses of champagne whilst getting ready, Pimms at the reception and wine with the meal, oddly I didn’t get drunk at all, could’ve been as it wasn’t much throughout the day. 

Post # 37
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Busy bee

sassybeee :  I ended up drinking too much & I regret it to this day cause I ended up yelling & crying at my bridesmaids cause my Maid/Matron of Honor didn’t have my makeup. 

Yea. So be careful drinking cause as hours start counting down you start getting nervous and that’s when I started drinking crown. 

Post # 38
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

I think I only had a glass or 2 of wine total. I was too anxious/excited and hardly ate so I wasn’t in the mood to drink!

Post # 39
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Worker bee

I got more than pretty drunk. My bridesmaids were saints for taking care of me (hats off to them for very carefully extracting a from my dress when BAD THINGS were about to happen and the zipper got stuck. Even bigger props to my Maid/Matron of Honor for hopping in the shower with me to make sure I stayed vertical–she got more action than my husband on our wedding night 😉 as was my dad for making the early morning run for Pepto and bagels. 

Our bartenders were making VERY strong drinks. And I had the fateful “I’m completely sober” thought at around 9:30 (we had to be leaving venue by 10pm) and had a few too many drinks in very quick succession. But I kept it together until we were back at our rental house for the after party which was really just close friends (who were all in equally rough shape). 

Post # 40
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2016 - Ed Oliver Golf Club, Wilmington, DE

I had mimosas in the morning while getting ready, probably 2 or 3. I had a few sips of champagne on the limo ride to the reception, and a glass of champagne during dinner. I stuck to water the rest of the night. Trust me, I drink! But I wanted to remember every part of my night, and also dreaded feeling sick in my dress. 

Post # 41
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Busy bee

my grandmother (and my dad) said the same thing to me about drinking. i had nothing at the rehearsal dinner or that morning because i didnt want to bloat… but i drank our signature bourbon cocktail the entire reception to keep up with our friends & family and let loose. i had a few glasses of water too and every time i tried to leave the dance floor to pee, i got pulled away for something else. i have no clue how i managed.

i remember everything, including hairwhipping to ACDC (a bridesmaid bet me, and helped me unpin my updo) and the afterparty. it was a really fun night, but a rough morning.

if a few cocktails get you to loosen up or have fun, i say go for it. the bride really sets the mood, if you’re having fun your guests will, too!

Post # 42
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Honestly, I don’t know! I had a couple of mimosas in the morning/afternoon, wine with dinner, and the champagne toast. I also had one of our signature cocktails when we first arrived at the reception, but I was so nervous/excited that I don’t think I finished it.

The rest of the night, I kept getting drinks (people giving them to me, mostly), but then I’d put it down to dance or say hi to people or take a picture, and my drinks would disappear! So I really have no idea how many drinks I actually had. I was definitely tipsy, but not drunk. I also drank A LOT of water. My husband drank more than me, but he was still fine, just in that “happy drunk” stage by the end of after party.

Post # 43
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I drank A LOT. Didn’t get sloppy or anything, and I wasn’t hung over in the morning. But my vodka was never empty and apparently I also had some moonshine straight from the jar. 

Post # 44
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2017

The past weddings I’ve been in or attended I’ve noticed that the bridal party almost always has too much to drink, too soon.

I plan to probably have a mimosa getting ready and either one glass of wine OR one or two mixed drinks at the reception, but not until all the events (cake cutting , dances) are over. I want to be able to remember everything and to feel good the next day !

Post # 45
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

I had a mimosa while getting ready, and maybe one beer during the reception? Honestly wish I’d had more, but I was so busy making sure I’d spent time talking to each guest, etc.

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