Post # 1
Meaning…logistically…do I tell my mom and maid-of-honor I want it in our hometown? Do I tell my future mother-in-law, one bridesmaid, and future sister-in-law that I want it where we live?
Or do I just say nothing and well let’s be honest not have one?
Post # 3
I would probably want to have it where most people would be coming from. If it is half and half, maybe you could have two (depending on the distance). If your hometown and where you live now are close, people could just commute, so it wouldn’t be a big deal.
For myself, I live 3.5 hours away from most of my family and friends, so my bridesmaid planned it in my hometown. That’s what made the most sense for everyone invloved.
Has anyone asked you where you would like to have your shower?
Post # 4
No one has asked. I brought it up with my maid of honor, saying that I was worried about it, and she was like, “You don’t have to worry about that.” But…I don’t know. My mom doesn’t seem to care about my getting married at all, so I don’t know how it’s going to get planned.
I don’t care about gifts. I just want people to care about me. Which is dumb, I know.