- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2014
We are getting married in a small lutheran church. I really like our pastor and we have completed premarital counseling with him that was helpful and free. He states that there is no charge for him performing the ceremony, but some people wish to give something and that is our discression. I certainly want to pay something but have no idea how much. There is also no fee for using the church so we are thinking of making a donation to the church and writing him a check as well. How much is customary? I can’t find anything!! Please help!