- MrsGrayIndy
- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
Im guilty I do it alot but no one has made any smart comments about it
Im guilty I do it alot but no one has made any smart comments about it
I’ve only changed my status to engaged, thus far. I most likely won’t post too much wedding stuff, only big milestones like a few engagement pictures, and probably some day-of wedding stuff 🙂
Not one thing. I did post pictures after the wedding though, but no wedding planning or wedding details were discussed as many of my FB friends weren’t invited.
I don’t think I ever even posted a picture of my ring on there. I imagine it might change as the date gets closer, but right now the only thing is when we got engaged and changed our relationship status. Once we do engagement photos I’m sure one or two will end up there, but I don’t want to post very much at all about it.
There have been a couple of girls I knew in high school that posted so much detail, like the date and location and everything, that I totally could have crashed their weddings, and I don’t want to be like that!
Also, right now I have a ton of already married friends who are more in the baby phase and wouldn’t care much, and a ton of single or impatiently waiting to get engaged friends, so I don’t want to be rubbing it in anyone’s face either.
Instead, my facebook is actually incredibly boring!
I didn’t post anything about wedding planning. I changed my status to engaged and put up engagement pictures but that was it. I did post wedding pictures afterwards.
I still haven’t updated my status to being in a relationship – FB slacker here.
I post quite a bit, especially now that we are just reaching the 2 weeks away mark, but my fb is mostly just close family and friends and I’ve been upfront and said that we aren’t having a huge affair. I haven’t had any problems.
I did set up a group so that only those attending the wedding can see most of the wedding related posts.
I post things from time to time. Mostly whenever there are pictures involved. Like when we were looking at venues or when we went bridesmaids dress shopping. It’s fun to get opinions.
But I put it all on a wedding filter. The only people on the list are family and friends who are invited. And mostly just the girls. As in Aunt Sue is on the list but not Uncle Fred.
I don’t say much at all. I know I don’t really care for the girls on my fb page who have a new status everyday about their wedding, so I avoid doing it. I posted when I found my dress, but that’s been it.
I don’t say much but I don’t post a lot to begin with. I really could care less what other people think about what I do or could post – if they don’t like it, defriend me!
Far too many people divulge far too much private details of their lives (worse than wedding milestones) on their.
I also think it’s silly to feel you have to “censor” yourself regarding wedding talk because people aren’t invited. I’d say less than 1% of my facebook frinds are invited to my wedding but it’s not going to stop me from posting if I want to.
The only things I have really posted are a count down every few months. Other people have tagged me in wedding related things (such as dress shopping, shower, etc).
Very little…I have posted a picture or two of Fiance and I out for drinks or tasting cupcakes, with a title of “Wedding planning is SOOO hard” :). So far, no weird comments.
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