(Closed) How much do you divulge about your wedding planning on FB?

posted 8 years ago in Technology
Post # 64
731 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I personally limit my wedding posts on FB a ton! I waited about 2 weeks to announce we were engaged (photos, relationship status change), and then I made one status update about crying while watching wedding videos. So two things, and it’s been 6 months of engagement!

Post # 65
11050 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I posted nothing

Post # 66
1089 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

I created a list of people who will be invited to the wedding and I will post so that only those people can see ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 67
18 posts
  • Wedding: November 2012

None at all, I haven’t changed my status either ๐Ÿ™‚ I’m not inviting too many people, I don’t want to feel guilty when people start asking me when and where.

Post # 68
873 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I don’t say anything specific, but do sometimes say things cryptically. Like, “7 months to go”…

Post # 69
3315 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Another one who posted absolutely nothing.  I sent private FB messages to those actually invited, to get their postal addresses.  But I avoided public posts.  I was brought up that it was rude to mention a party in front of people not invited to it.  And for the people who were invited, I didn’t want to discuss wedding details, because I wanted them to be surprised.

Post # 70
411 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

i have used fb to private message friends for address,picture of my ring, statuses about dress shopping and said yes to the dress. i asked for advice on a couple subjects like did they do the day after brunch but i have never posted any details like colour, venue, dresses, jewerly. nothing like that. i want it all to be a surprise ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 71
2587 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - UK

Nothing at all. I don’t want all the people I ‘sort-of’ know from high school knowing my bits and pieces. And my facebook is fairly well locked down, and I do a friends cut every few months or so to get rid of people I never really spoke to,


That and I’ve got people on facebook who I only have on there because I like to get some gossip, but I don’t want them getting the same from me.

Post # 72
2587 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - UK

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@rebwana:  You had a PIRATE CRUISE for your Bachelorette party? You’re my new hero. Where was that?

Post # 73
846 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

i haven’t posted anything on facebook either. i did change my status to engaged, but i waited almost a week so that we could tell our families and friends first. i will probably post our engagement pictures too when we get them back (hopefully this week!)

Post # 74
5408 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

I only comment about big things, like when we got engaged, our engagment session, etc. I’ll probably make a status about dress shopping, but I don’t want to talk about it too much because I know the majority of people on my Facebook won’t be invited and don’t really care about my plans hahha

Post # 75
2966 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Other than the being engaged part, I haven’t posted anything else – and I won’t. The only people who listen to my *endless* wedding talk are my mother, best friend, Future Mother-In-Law and sometimes FH. ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 76
7457 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Hardly anything! I just didn’t want to open up the can of worms of aquaintances asking if they were going to be invited. 

I changing my relationship status to engaged, I did post some ring shots, and few engagement photos. Other people posted wedding stuff and tagged me in it, which I was okay with. Stuff like “wedding dress shopping with Xxxxxx”. Also a few pictures were posted from my bachelorette party. 

After the wedding I posted cell phone pics, but I’m still waiting on my pro ones – those will get posted. 

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