How much do you know?

posted 8 months ago in Intimacy
Post # 46
576 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

We never had a serious conversation or asked each other directly about these things. Like PPs, it’s mainly when it comes up in conversation.

I’ve only had a few serious relationships, so I’m pretty easy to figure out. And, he’s been married before (and had a child), so that’s an easy one. I’m super curious about any others. Just doesn’t affect our relationship now.

Post # 47
520 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2019

Darling Husband and I don’t discuss it and it’s worked out fine. I don’t care to know about his sexual past and I’m sure he wouldn’t want to know about mine, I have a pretty extensive history. I think the more you know, the more can upset you or make you feel uncomfortable if there is a lot in someone’s past. (I know some people are totally cool with finding out their partner had a ton of partners before them and did a lot of kinky stuff. Just speaking personally). We got together in our mid-thirties so there was a lot of banging time before that and neither of us are interested in rehashing the past. 

Post # 48
551 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

I know everything. Not because I care but because I’m nosey and asked. He doesn’t want to know anything about my past though haha.

ETA: hearing about his past doesn’t bother me, I’m happy we both “sowed our wild oats” before we met.

Post # 49
200 posts
Helper bee

I know everything and sometimes it’s great and sometimes it’s hard. 

We have been super close friends for 21 years ….but only started dating almost a year ago. 

I am friends with several of his exes in Facebook and we are not “Facebook official” (my decision because of my daughter) …so sometimes that is not my favorite but other times I love knowing everything….

We can’t hide from each other….all our crap is on the table Hahahaha Never have had to be anyone but me…and that makes it easy 

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