(Closed) How much do you plan your days?

posted 7 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Best describes my low-impact planning habits:

    I plan early, in detail, for everything, and I do my best to stick to it.

    I always make a coherent plan ahead of time, but am OK with deviating from the plan.

    I sometimes get a vague idea of what I'll do, but I don't think that much about it.

    I make spur-of-the-moment choices most of the time.

  • Post # 3
    3025 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

    I am not a big planner. I usually have a vague idea of what I want/need to do, but I rarely stick to it strictly.

    Post # 4
    2536 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I try and plan my days by making a list of things that I would like to get done that day. I do it based on the big rock, pebble, sand analogy…so big rock jobs take precedence, then pebbles and sand items get interspersed. This helps me to try and achieve something for the day rather than sitting around watching television (I am on holiday at the moment so not at work).


    In answer to your scenarios…

    1. Of a quiet evening in, yes I do usually know what I am going to eat…mainly because I would have got it out the freezer the night before! I try to go to bed around the same time each night if I have work the next day but sometimes it will be earlier and sometimes later. 

    2. I am a creature of habit so tend to like to drink the same things when out and, if going to a restaurant I frequent on a regular basis, then I do tend to eat the same things. I usually have a vague plan in my mind about what time I would like to leave but depending on who I am with and what we are doing will depend on if I stick to it or not. I hate being late for things so will arrange and plan roughly when I am going to leave the house. 

    Post # 5
    9838 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2019

    I have a to do list every day, some things I get done, others I don’t. Unless it is a day where something is on – work, uni, special occasion – I try to get the to do list done. I don’t usually plan what I will do in my free time, or what I will do in the evenings. If it is a night I am cooking I have that planned out a couple of days ahead of time.

    Post # 6
    784 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

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    @FromA2B2013:  I like the rock, pebble, sand metaphor!


    Like the others, I generally have a vague plan, but I find it best to see how the evening is going and go with the flow.  For example, I might think I’m going home at 11 because I’m exhausted, but end up having a fabulous time and going to 3 more bars.  But, maybe I would stick to my 11 leaving time if I thought I was getting sick and had a lot of work to do in the morning.  I like being able to be flexible.

    Post # 7
    2362 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

    I voted I usually have a coherent plan ahead of time, but that I am ok with deviating from the plan if need be. I do love to be spontaneous, but I am a planner by nature so I just find myself making plans in my head all the time. But I am ok with change!

    Post # 8
    5217 posts
    Bee Keeper

    For day to day things like dinners, evening activities and such I am a planner. I kind of have to be because I have a pretty long commute, so from Monday-Friday I need a general idea of what is scheduled, what is for dinner, what time I can go work out, what I need to wear, etc.

    On the weekends, eh– I am very much ‘go with the flow’… I don’t plan for our departure times on anything unless we have multiple obligations in one night and we need to be on a schedule.

    Post # 9
    4045 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I’m a planner. I always have a vague idea of what is happening each day – even for the mundane things. Now, I will go with the flow. If I am at a party and I was planning to go home at 11pm, but I am having a great time, then I’ll go ahead and stay an extra hour. The plans aren’t do or die, but having them in place makes me feel secure.

    Post # 10
    11050 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Scenario 1: planned most of the time

    Scenario 2: spur of the moment for sure

    I like spontaniety but in the week I find being more organised is better.

    Post # 11
    3370 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    When I was younger, I was pretty much go-with-the-flow. Now, what with wedding planning and stressful work schedules for both Fiance and me, not having at least a broad plan gives me terrible anxiety. I try to make a to-do list (gym or go for a run, calls and emails I need to make, contact wedding vendors, reply to friends’ messages, dry-cleaning, groceries etc). I try to do a grocery run every couple of days rather than saving it all up for a weekly shop, which I find more stressful. I’d rather keep the fridge topped up and always know I have healthy options when I get home from work. 

    On the other hand, with it comes to social engagements I’m pretty flexible. Always happy to fit in a spontaneous dinner with a girlfriend if the timing is mutually convenient, because I know how busy everyone’s lives are. 

    Post # 12
    953 posts
    Busy bee

    Since I cook dinner every night, I always plan meals ahead of time, so I know when to start prepping each day. For everything else, I like to have a general plan of what we’re doing, but I’m OK with things changing.

    Post # 13
    2543 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I’m somewhere between the second and third option, lol.

    Post # 14
    998 posts
    Busy bee

    Day to day not always. But if I am going to see friends and what not I am planning at least 1-2 weeks ahead.

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