(Closed) How much do you spend on shower gift?

posted 5 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: How much do you spend on shower gift?
    $20 or less : (1 votes)
    2 %
    $20-$30 : (5 votes)
    12 %
    $30-$40 : (8 votes)
    19 %
    $40-$50 : (16 votes)
    37 %
    $50-$75 : (12 votes)
    28 %
    $75-$100 : (0 votes)
    Over $100 : (1 votes)
    2 %
    I spend a lot because I combine the shower and wedding gift in one : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    2951 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 1998

    @Imean:  I usually spend $50:)

    Post # 5
    922 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Depends on my connection with the bride.  For family and close friends, around $50.  I usually do $100 for the wedding then.

    Post # 6
    9681 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @Imean:  Depends how close we are. If it’s my sister, a lot. If it’s a friend, $50 to $100.

    Post # 7
    5271 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    I usually take the amount of the entire gift I was planning on giving and divide it in half. Spending the one half amount on a shower gift, and then giving the other half as a wedding gift. 

    Unless it is a close friend or family member, $100 is the usual total gift, so $50 for shower, then $50 in cash for wedding. 

    Post # 8
    214 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    Depends on how close I am with the person. For a wedding I was recently in I spent about $150 because I absolutely love my friend and really wanted to get her that particular gift from her registry. For other I am not close with definitely less then $100. 

    Post # 10
    1475 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Usually $50 on shower gift and $100 on wedding gift, but also depends on who it is and how close I am to the person.

    Post # 11
    161 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @Imean:  It depends on my relationship with the person AND if I have to travel an idiotic amount of time for the shower. My friend (who is NOT from NJ) had her bridal shower at an Italian restaurant in NJ (yes the location WAS her choice). We are from NY (Long Island to be exact) and this place held NO specific connection to the couple – it’s not their favorite restaurant, it’s not where he proposed, they didn’t have their first date there. She chose a random place in the middle of NJ to have all of us schelp to.


    I usually average $100 on a gift but if I’m going over bridges and paying tolls for no reason the you usually get a discounted gift. 

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