(Closed) How much do you usually spend on a wedding gift?

posted 8 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: How much do you spend on a gift when you attend a wedding?
    $0-25 per person attending : (13 votes)
    6 %
    $25-50 per person attending : (83 votes)
    39 %
    $50+ per person attending : (105 votes)
    49 %
    Other : (14 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I generally give $50 per person attending. Unless it is someone we are very close to (and in the wedding party), then we give $150 per person.

    Post # 4
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    Bumble bee

    We usually do $100

    Post # 5
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I will admit that if anyone gives us a $10-$25 gift, I will be pretty dissapointed. We are having a black tie wedding and spending $250+ per head.

    Post # 6
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Depends on the couple, but generally, Fiance and I will give gifts of $100-$150 from the both of us. 

    Your wedding is still quite a while from now, perhaps the people who have given you gifts mean them as engagement gifts?  Have you already registered?

    Edit:  Oh, nevermind I must have read your wedding date wrong… could have sworn it said Sept 2011!  Wink 

    Post # 7
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    We usually give gifts of about $100 regardless of whether one or both of us attended the wedding. 

    Post # 8
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Oh it depends on lots of things including geographic location, financial status, and honestly family size. I usually give $100 regardless if I go alone or with the Fiance. My sister gives $50 for her family of four, but that is all she can afford to give. When I was 18-21 I gave $20 because I was a broke college student.

    My friend just told me when she got married, all her New York friends cut checks for $500-$800, since that is apparently what people from New York do. She invited 5 of her NY friends and they gave 15% of the cash gifts. I was shocked to find that out, but apparently that is just the culture.

    I would probably give $150 if we had kids and they attended.

    Post # 9
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    We give $100, whether we attend or not. If they are very close friends, we might give more like $150.

    Post # 10
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    2196 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I’m currently a broker than broke college student and give about $40.

    Post # 11
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    118 posts
    Blushing bee

    Typically – if I go alone $50, as a couple $100. If it’s someone we are very close with probably closer to $100 each?? I understand you should be happy with any gift you receive but there are certain monetary gifts that are a little shocking to say the least.

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Usually between $150 and $200 if we both attend, $100 if it is just one of us. We are doing well now. Travel costs and budget can be significant, though, in choosing a gift.

    Post # 13
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Around $100 but more if I’m very close with the couple. I prefer to buy off the registry and don’t do cash/checks unless the registry has been picked clean already.

    Post # 14
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    Busy bee

    Maybe I’m off-base here, but I should think people give what they can afford.  If they can afford a $25 gift, I totally honor that.  Why should someone add to their debt to get a “nice” gift.  Everyone’s idea of a suitabley priced gift is different as we can see by the poll.  I’ve also heard that some people think that you should give a gift of equal value as to the cost of your “plate.”  That is just plain crazy!  Is the value of friendship and good wishes tied to the dollar value of the gift?  I think not.

    Post # 15
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    When my Fiance and I are invited to a wedding, we typically spend around $100 as a couple (so about $50 a person) on a gift.  Obviously this varies slightly depending on how close we are to the couple, other financial factors at the time, the availability of gifts on their registry at different prices, etc so I’d give it a range of $75-$125 from Fiance and I.

    Post # 16
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    We give $200 and will give $300 if we are really close with the couple and $500 if it’s a sibling. Things are really expensie in Boston so that may be why people tend to give a little more. For a shower I tend to give a give between $50-$100 and I just had my shower and that is what the majority of the people gave.

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