(Closed) How much money is in your savings??

posted 7 years ago in Money
  • poll: Do you share how much is in your account?
    Yes, To Everyone : (6 votes)
    4 %
    Yes, To Family & Friends : (9 votes)
    6 %
    Yes, To my SO only. : (110 votes)
    74 %
    Nope, No one ever. : (23 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2114 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    No. Never to friends or family. 

    SO and our accountant are the only people that would know that information

    Post # 4
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    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Only Darling Husband knows. My Uncle also knows because he’s my financial advisor. 

    Post # 5
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    3624 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I voted that only my spouse knows, but my mom knows too, only because she does all my taxes and i talk to her about my spending/saving.

    Post # 6
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    376 posts
    Helper bee

    hahaha we are planning a wedding, there is no savings 😉

    Post # 7
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    2463 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I voted Darling Husband only, but my dad knows too–he’s an economist and we talk about savings, taxes, retirement plans, etc quite a bit.

    Post # 8
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    685 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I voted my SO only but my dad know as well. I don’t know I’d SO shares with the in-laws or not, if he does, I don’t really mind.

    Post # 9
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    3461 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I’ve told my SO (now, whether he remembers or not is another thing, although we’ve discussed on more than one occasion).  My dad knows how much I have in retirement because he trades that for me.  It wouldn’t phaze me to tell him how much I have in my checking & other account, but it’s never really come up.  I don’t talk specifics with friends, although I have talked generalities with a closer few, such as “Yay, I now have a positive net worth” after paying off some grad loans.

    Post # 10
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    1144 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Only my Fiance knows, we have joint accounts. I would never air out our financial situation to anyone. It’s none of their business.

    Post # 11
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    14486 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I’m not uncomfortable if someone shares that info with me, but I would not share it.  Only my husband and my dad know since he does my taxes. 

    Post # 12
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    1235 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    My Fiance and my parents know because we are trying to save for a condo. Its really no one else’s business how much is in my savings account, and I wouldnt WANT that information spread everywhere..who KNOWS who might try and get your information to take your hard earned $$$

    Post # 13
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    11325 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    Wow! A little shocked by these answers quite honestly. I really and honestly don’t understand the taboo that surrounds talking about money. I understand that it exists, and I’m sensitive to that in my conversations and would never initiate asking someone how much they have. But I don’t understand the purpose of the secret. Okay, so maybe it is “none of their business.” But who cares? Honestly what harm comes from other people knowing how much money is in your savings, how much you paid for something, or how much you make? Do you think they’ll like you less? Why? 

    Obviously, I am very open about our money situation. It kind of comes up in conversation, in my experience. For example, when planning the wedding my parents were helping us pay. To explain to them why I set the budget I did, I explained how much we had in our savings account. When I bought a car, my parents were with me and I asked their opinion on how much to put as a down payment. For my friends, it is more about planning. I talk to two of my friends on a regular (and very frank) basis about finances. We give support and advice to each other when we’re thinking about things like how much we should put towards retirement, how much towards savings, what kind of car can we *really* afford, when could we afford to have a baby. And when good things happen, why not spread the news? When my husband got a raise, or when I get a bonus, I absolutely call my mom and two of my friends excited, just like I would if any other good thing happened! And it is all mutual. I knew when my friend’s husband’s paid off her student loans. I knew how much they sunk into their home to refinance it, and the state that left their bank accounts in. I knew when my other friend’s husband got a promotion and a massively huge bonus. We trade budgets. 

    I don’t know… maybe we’re weird. But if we share tips on hair, on tv shows, and on sex… why not money too?

    Post # 14
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    14486 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    @CorgiTales: We definitely talk investment strategies and ways to save money and planning and stuff, but we just avoid specifics.  We know that many of our friends are in debt and/or dont have a lot in savings since they share that info, but we’ve been lucky and really good with saving, and I’m sure that if some of those friends knew, we would never hear the end of it about being “so cheap” when it comes to talking about buying anything from a new car to going out to eat… and I just dont to hear them joking about how we should just buy abc and xyz all the time since we can afford it and to quit being so cheap. 

    Post # 15
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    7609 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    My Fiance and my mom know how much I’ve got saved.  To be honest, I’d feel a little uncomfortable telling my friends, only because it’s a decent amount and I know some of them don’t have much “extra” cash lying around.  I’d feel like I was bragging, OR I’d feel uncomfortable ever letting them pick up drinks for me, you know?

    Post # 16
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    269 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Being a poor college student I’m not ashamed of how much money I have or well don’t have. For instance my friend is wanting me to travel 2.5 hours to her Christmas party next weekend but I told her flat out this is how much I have and it doesn’t look like I’ll have enough money for the gas. If I had money then I think I’d be more private about it. I also work at a bank so I feel like money is just money since I see it all day everyday. My friend will invite me to dinner and I’ll say well I don’t get paid until Wednesday and I only have $8.00 to get me there… I feel like people are less pushy about going out if I’m upfront and honest. That way I don’t have to make up an excuse and I don’t have to pretend to be someone I’m not. My Fiance is the complete opposite. His family doesn’t talk much about anything though- money, sex, religion- nothing. They’re private people.

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