(Closed) How much of you wedding day look does your FI know…

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

He’s seen my shoes, the veil, my jewelry, and knows the general idea of my dress (simple, strapless, makes my boobs look big).  I don’t mind that he knows these things because unless you’re marrying Marc Jacobs or Randy from SYTTD, a dude is not going to have any idea of how it’ll look all together.

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Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

My Fiance has seen every piece of it but none of it together and not the dress on me – but I did pop the veil on for him once – it is driving him nuts – he is trying to piece it all together but cannot and it is making him even more impatient for our wedding day to get here ๐Ÿ™‚

It has been fun sweet torture ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

He hasn’t seen the dress, but I’ve described it to him.  He has seen the accessories online and has a general idea, but he really can’t put it all together in his head.  I’m hoping he’ll love the look on our day!

I already know he’s a little sad that the dress isn’t strapless.  Oh well!

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

He was there when I bought the shoes…  and I’m pretty sure he has seen me surfing the web for jewelry…  and thats it! 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

He knows what undies, shoes, garter and hair accessories I have. He knows what style of hair and makeup that I will be having and he knows the general shape of my dress (tight down to the bottom of my butt where it flares out and has a long train) but thats about it. He doesnt know what jewlerry I will have… not sure why I have kept it a secret lol

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

My Darling Husband was the one who purchased my hairpiece, and he also saw the shoes because I was obsessed! He didn’t know about the dress, but I think he kinda figured it was gonna be tulle and slightly poofy because he knows that is what I like.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My Fiance helped me pick out my dress! He went with me when I went to try stuff on, so he knows what it looks like, but at his request he didn’t see me try on any veils or anything else. Plus, I ordered a dress that I didn’t get to try on, so he will still get that surprise factor on the wedding day!

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2012

He knows absolutely nothing!!  We also don’t live together yet.  I wouldn’t mind showing him some things but he really has no interest.  The only thing he knows is the designer of my dress but thats because he was there when I told someone.  I’m sure he’s already forgotten.

He did mention to someone that I likely would choose something simpler and non strapless and somehow he assumed right.

 

 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

My fiance knows that I have a veil and that I have a lace dress (because my SIL mentioned it. I was somewhat annoyed at first but later figured that he would have no clue anyway)

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

He has seen my hair, makeup and shoes. There was a scare that he (accidentally) saw my dress a while ago, but the other day when I told him I was working on my arms he was like “but they’re going to be under sleeves though” so I really don’t think he saw many details if he didn’t even realize it is strapless lol.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

All he knows is that my dress is ivory and my shoes are purple.  He’s clueless on everything else and wants to keep it that way.  ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Mine has only seen my bracelet(because our daughter had it on), slip and bra. And knows my dress is not as white as I would have liked and has a flower that he won’t like. He has been pretty opinionated about certain things so I don’t want him to see much because honestly I want to look good for me first and secondly for him. He’ll probably not notice anything but my face and my height in my shoes since he is only 5′ 9″.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Mine saw a picture of the dress on the model, but I doubt he remembers. The shoes, jewelry, and veil are all in our house, but I don’t think he has any interest. He really wants to be surprised when I walk down the aisle!

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

My Fiance knows my dress is blush pink because I asked her if she was ok with color before ordering it.  I still think she will be surprised by the dress itself–she mentioned she thinks I chose something “tasteful”.  My dress isn’t tacky, but it definitely isn’t restrained either!

I am torn about whether to show her shoes, jewelry, etc.  I’ll be checking back to see what other Bees are doing!

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