(Closed) How much sex per week?

posted 8 years ago in Married Life
  • poll: How many times do you have sex per week?

    Less than 1








    More than 7

  • Post # 32
    6422 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    We’re more weekenders since our hour long commute kills us… so I guess 1-2? Saturday and Sunday, maybe Friday night.  😉

    Post # 33
    2389 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

    Right now I’d say we’re 3 or 4 x a week. My drive seems to be on a low ebb, and Fiance has some medical issues that mean his drive is lower than in his bad old days… but we still manage to do it every other night or so. 🙂

    Post # 34
    1075 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013 - Vine Street Church

    It really depends on the week, but I’d say we average 2-3 times.

    Post # 35
    4090 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I’d say on average 1x a week, just an average.  We are so active (skiing, running, etc) that honestly we’re pretty drained 90% of the time! I rarely turn down H, though I do recall a couple times he’s turned me down because he’s so tired.


    I always heard having an active lifestyle makes you more fit and more energetic, but so far it really drains both of us.  Luckily we are OK with the frequency because we talk about it, “Should we be doing it more?”  LOL


    I’ve heard how the Olympic athlete villages at the Olympics are rampant with high sex driven fit people.  Enough to offer free condoms.  I think I would be so tired most of the time.


    H said over the holiday break, “Let’s have sex everyday for a month!”  I was on board, but we didn’t make it past night 1.  Ha!  When we’re on vacation it’s much more frequent.

    Post # 36
    775 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    2 – 3 times a week but sometimes 4 times a week.

    Post # 37
    118 posts
    Blushing bee

    Right now only about once a week.  We have both been very stressed from things at work, and between my full-time job, his business, getting to the gym, an active social life, and the craziness of planning a wedding, most nights one or the other of us is just so exhausted that once a week is about all we can manage.  The month of our wedding is conveniently also the timeframe where both of our work situations should be changing for the better, so I’m keeping my fingers crossed that things will calm down and we’ll have more time and energy!

    I have to say it makes me feel better seeing that I’m not the only one who’s not doing it every day!

    Post # 38
    336 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2017 - Rossino Castle

    2-3 times a week,usually.He’s happy with 2,I would go up to 4-5 times a week,if it was for me lol.I’m definitely the one with the highest drive 😛

    Post # 39
    7225 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    4-7 times a week. Depends on the type of day he’s had.

    Post # 40
    350 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    once a week if im lucky  my sex drive has gone way up in the last year and his has gon down.  i would like it everyday  hes more so once a week if that..its actually very frustrating

    Post # 41
    635 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I’d say about 2 times a week. DH would probably be happy with 7 times a week and right now I would be fine with 0. Of course I am 30 weeks pregnant, so it is kind of uncomfortable for me at this point. I used to have a higher sex drive then DH, but as we are getting older I feel like mine is going down and his is going up. We have been together 4 years, married for 6 months. 

    Post # 42
    569 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    Varies.  If one of us is stressed out about something (like DH is about job hunting right now, or me during wedding planning), 1-2/week.  If neither of us is stressed, and we’re not travelling or busy?  4-5/week.

    Post # 43
    7952 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

    we are in baby making mode so right now as much as we can.  this cycle we are trying EOD.

    prior to marriage, about 2-3 times per week.


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