(Closed) How much time do you and your significant other spend together?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How much time do you and your significant other spend together?

    average 1 - 2.5 hours a day

    average 3 - 4 hours a day

    average 5-6 hours a day

    24/7 I can't get enough/can't get away from them ;-)

    I am in a long distance relationship so I take what I can get!

    Other: I'll explain...

  • Post # 3
    2638 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2006

    Well, we both work, and sometimes we spend the evenings together, sometimes we see friends/do our own thing. On weeknights, probably about 2-3 hours on average. On Sundays it’s 24/7 . . . Saturdays it’s a crapshoot.

    Post # 4
    3667 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    I guess 5-6 hours a day during the week, not counting sleeping (we live together). He works during the day and I go to school in the evenings, so we spend time/have dinner together when I get home from class and I see him before he leaves for work in the morning.

    We usually spend the whole weekend together, though.

    Post # 5
    3551 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I work first shift and he often works second shift. Some days I see him for about 20 minutes when we’re both concious. Other days we spend the entire day together. It really varies based on his schedule. He has to close for the next three weeks which means he gets home at my bed time so I won’t be seeing him much.

    Post # 6
    6432 posts
    Bee Keeper

    On average, we spend about 3-4 hours a day together. This would be more but he works Monday-Friday 8-4.30, whereas I work Saturdays 2.30-10.30, Sundays all day, and Monday 4-10; meaning that we don’t get weekends together as most couples do.

    This will increase when I eventually complete my studies and get a full-time, Monday-Friday job, but only because we’ll get weekends together; week days will be much the same, about 3-4 hours after work and before bed.

    Post # 7
    3457 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    We commute together generally, unless I have some meetings for my volunteer work.  So, 1 hour in the AM, 5-6 at night, likely on average 4-5 per weekday.  We’re often together all of the weekends.  He’ll travel 6x a year, for ~3-5 days each time – say 4-5x for work, 1-2x for personal (like this year he has two bachelor parties).  It’s really mostly my non-profit work that separates us.  But sometimes he’ll go over to one of his friends place w/o me, or I’ll have gals night.

    Post # 8
    5279 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    During the work week, it is like 3-4 hours a day. 

    However, on the weekends we usually spend the entire time together. Our routine is either Fri go out with friends, Sat is either a date night in our out, and Sundays are our day together alone. 

    Post # 9
    10713 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    On weekdays: 5-6 hours. he get’s home at 5 and depending on if he goes to bed at 10 or 11 we really do get 5 or 6 hours lol.

    On weekends: all day unless he has Guard which is only once a month.

    Post # 10
    2065 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    On weekdays, it’s like 3-4 hours a day when we’re not sleeping. We both work all day, I workout after work a few times a week, so there’s not a lot of us-time while we’re awake. But we spend most weekends together, although he works occasionally.

    Post # 11
    9876 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We work in the same department, so we’re together pretty much 24/7. We have our own desks and whatnot obviously, but I can see him from where I sit lol.

    Post # 12
    1629 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I would say anywhere from 2-4 hours on a weekday. It varies on the weekend depending on our plans, but we always try to spend one whole day together, usually doing errands. And we are usually together most of the second day as well, but I would say there are also weekends where we don’t have a ton of time together too.

    Post # 13
    4045 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    LDR… boo. So when we do see each other we are around each other 24/7, unless I am visiting him and he needs to go to work, in which case it’s every moment he isn’t at work. 🙂

    Post # 14
    11265 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    we are both retired and spend 24/7 with each other.  keep in mind, we still do our own thing during the day but we pretty much see each other all of the time.  we love spending time together and never get sick of it.

    Post # 15
    2417 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I work two jobs totaling about 65 hours a week and he is working upwards of 70 hours a week. I see him one or two nights during the work week for about 4 hours and then depending upon how long one of us is working on the weekends, between 4-6 hours a day on the weekend. It sucks. But, we make it work.

    Post # 16
    3941 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Not including sleeping, probably around 7 hours of the day.  We work next to eachother so we car pool and eat lunch together every day.  We just moved so we have no friends besides one another.  We’re together most of the time!

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