(Closed) How not to risk getting my hopes up and being dissapointed?

posted 10 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

Without reading the blog…  I also set my date and booked the venue before there was a proposal.  I found that by expecting him to propose only prolonged it.  There were ample opportunities with fancy dinners, romantic weekends, etc… but he never did it. Until, finally on a Monday night — when I would least expect it — he popped the question.  We talked about it later and he told me that he wanted me to be surprised, eventhough I knew it was coming — the only way to do that was to catch me off guard.  So, I guess my advice is to STOP thinking about it.  He will do it when he is ready and when you aren’t expecting it.   You would be more disappointed if he did it just because you are expecting it!

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010 - Casa Real at Ruby Hill Winery
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010 - Casa Real at Ruby Hill Winery

Oops. Just saw how old this post was. Sorry!

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