How often are you intimate?

posted 3 months ago in Intimacy
Post # 61
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: City, State

ladama :  it’s been about 1-3 days a week recently, it used to be 3-5. It changes, work has been weird for both of us and we’ve gotten out of shape lol

When we do have sex, it’s really intense and passionate, and we are otherwise very physically affectionate, so I’m still fulfilled even if we have sex less often. We have a kinky relationship, so much of our “off-time” is spent teasing or touching. I would say we have a really healthy physical relationship.

ETA my boyfriend is usually hard in the morning but I hate waking up, otherwise it would be like 5 days a week. We are more active when we aren’t tired, and on weekends.

Neither of us turn it down and we never initiate if the other is feeling bad.

Post # 62
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2019

2-5 times a week, depending on where I am in my work stretch (nurse, 12 hr shifts) or cycle. It’s a frequency I think the both of us are happy with. In a perfect world, we’d probably go once a day.

Post # 63
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: June 2018

We were having sex once a week were the happiest, while couples who reported having sex two, three, or more times a week were no happier than those having sex once a week. 

Post # 64
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2019

Penetrative sex maybe twice a week, but we generally do oral or other things daily.  We both actually prefer that to PIV sex, for the most part.

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