(Closed) How often do u and your SO have sex?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 17
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

We have been together for 4 years. And we usually have sex about 5 times a week, sometimes more, sometimes less.

Post # 18
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

We have sex 2-3 times a week, but do that and/or general “sex-like things” 4-5 times a week.

Post # 19
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Helper bee

We have been together for 3 years and have sex about 2-4 times a week. In the first two years it was more like 4-6 times a week. 

He works 11 hours a day/5 days a week. He’s usually pretty tired after work. We just recently joined a gym, so now we work out really hard for an hour a day. I’ll be going back to school full-time soon, and I’m hoping this doesn’t dwindle our sexy time together. 

He is the best sex I’ve ever had in my life though. With my ex it used to be multiple times a day, every day, but the quality wasn’t there. 

Quality over quantity for me. It’s not a competition. It’s whatever works for you as a couple because sex drives, energy, and time vary with each couple.

Post # 20
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

We don’t live together so we only get to have sex once a week, but if we DID live together, I imagine there would be some kind of intimate act going on once a day. We crave each other, no matter how tired, stressed, or busy we are! Didn’t’cha know sex relieves stress???

Post # 21
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Newbee

We have been ‘together’ since I was 14 so about 13 years now.

Post # 23
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Newbee

Quality over quantity for me. It’s not a competition. It’s whatever works for you as a couple because sex drives, energy, and time vary with each couple.

Post # 24
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@budgetbrideMeredithH85:  we have been together two years and have sex at least four times a week, sometimes much more than that depending on what’s going on. 

Post # 25
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

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@Scoty:  Yeah, I agree with this.  We average maybe 2-3 times a week, which I think is just right for us.  The times we do are generally very quality though.  I think once every 2 weeks would a be little hard for me, but then again, if I were really busy with work, it wouldn’t be too bad.  You’re hardly in a sexless marriage, so that’s the important thing!

Post # 26
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

We have been together 12 1/2 years and have recently hit a dry spell. DH suffers from some health issues which has caused his libido to become non-existent, but we’re trying to overcome that. Right now we ‘do it’ about once a week, but that’s because he’s also out of town for work, and I see him >24hours a week.

Our sex life has had ups-and-downs, though (pardon the pun). Some weeks would be completely sex-free, and other weeks we’d screw/make love/whatever you want to call it 4+ times a day.

Post # 27
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Well b4 the SO & I became celibate (hardest things ever..but have just beacme deeper in my faith) we had a very active sex life depending how much we got to see each other so between 2/3-5/6 times a week…several times per day. I think it really matters what the couple are comfortable with. Life happens and as adults we have things to do and resposibilites and some days tired us out more then others. As long as your satisfied enjoy it! 🙂 

Post # 28
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1998

It’s a sad day when I realize that everyone in this thread gets more than I do.

Post # 29
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Maybe one every two weeks or so. Sometimes once a month…

I admit, I have a really low sex drive, FH works late so neither of us are really in the mood a lot. We’ve been together almost 4 years and our sex life used to be so much better.

 

Post # 30
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Usually at least 3 times a week, varying with schedules and exhaustion levels 🙂 

Post # 31
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

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@CookieCreamCakes:  Aw, no worries! We just went through a 2-month-long dry spell, so I’m very happy with my once-a-week!

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