(Closed) How often do u and your SO have sex?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 32
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Smithfield Center

Right now we only see each other 2 days a week and 1 of those days we spend it at my grandparent’s house so…we don’t have sex that day for obvious reasons.

The other day I’d say we have sex 1-2 times. So 1-2 times a week currently.

 

Post # 33
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

We’re high school sweethearts, and we have been having sex forrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr 6 years.  A little over.  And we have sex 3-4 times/week, occasionally more, but rarely less because I get cranky!

If you’re both ok with it then it’s fine!!  🙂

Post # 34
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

2 or 3 times a week, but it just depends!

Post # 35
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

When we were in college together it was about five times per week. When I finished up my last year and only saw him on the weekends it was three times a week. Now that we are married and live together I’d say twice a week is pretty normal.

Post # 36
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

1-3 times/week. I’m pregnant, and not in the mood often these days =

Post # 37
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

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@CookieCreamCakes:  don’t feel bad, everyone on here gets more than me as well. 

Post # 38
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2004

2-5x/week. It depends on our moods, work, etc.

Post # 39
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

@budgetbrideMeredithH85:  

My husband and I are both busy, but we make love 3-4 times a week. We have been together for six years and married for three of those years. Both of us have high sex drives.

 

Post # 40
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Meh… Honestly about 3-4 times a MONTH….

🙁 I thought it was pretty normal and now I am wondering! 

We have been together since 2005 (HS Sweethearts) 8 years. 

In the beginning we did it like, 2-3 times a day! 

Post # 42
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Sugar bee

@budgetbrideMeredithH85:  I’m right there with you. Once or twice every week or two or three. Actually causing a bit of a problem on my end. 

Post # 43
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1998

Not often, and never did. Starting out…maybe once a month, every two months, and that went on for years. I still don’t buy that he was paranoid about getting me pregnant (we were using reliable stuff). I just think he was lazy.

Sad thing is, though it’s a small improvement, it’s generally 2, maybe 3 times a month now. We’re trying to conceive, so we’re basically abstinent all month except for a 4 day window or so.

Part of it now is that we do have a lot of stresses going on (got married, getting a house, trying for a baby…etc.).

It used to bother me a lot and eventually I stopped caring. It was too much stress for me to sit and agonize over it. It is refreshing that so many others though, years into their relationships, have similar patterns. It is depressing when all you hear is “3 or 5 times a week!” or “About 10 times a week!”

Threads like these always provide evidence that ‘normal’ is a very wide range.

 

Post # 44
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2014

for us, everyday! i dont think a day goes by withought us not having sex. weekends3-4 times. 

 

Post # 45
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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@SweetartMD:  Me too!  HS sweethearts, together 8 years now.  The sex has really dwindled.  We have sex maybe 4 times a month, so an average of once a week.  Honestly, I sometimes wish it was more, but I figure we’ve got our whole lives to have lots of sex! 🙂

Post # 46
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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@CookieCreamCakes:  I totally agree!  It’s nice to know that there’s a wide range of experiences.

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