(Closed) How often do you?

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How often do you tell your SO you love them in the span of an average day?

    1-5

    6-10

    11+

    none

  • Post # 17
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    We usually say when we leave in the morning, if we talk on the phone during the day and if one of us leaves again after work, and again before bed… so I’d say 4-5 times a day.

    Post # 18
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2010

    We actually don’t say it every day. We love each other dearly, but are both more sensitive to other love languages than words; so I feel loved everyday and so does he, but we don’t need to hear it to know. Of course, it’s nice to hear when we do say it, and we say it a few times a week, but not every day.

    Post # 19
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I think overuse as a previous poster mentioned takes the meaning and gravity of the emotion out of the words.

    I make sure that when we wake up, go to bed, leave for work, come home from work and after cooking/washing up we say we love each other as gratitude for what we have together.

    I love him ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 20
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    We hardly ever say it.  And for some reason I am not bothered by that.  We both constantly show it.

    Post # 21
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    our special phrase is “I appreciate you”… so we say “i love you” a lot, but the other one is more reserved- we definitely try to say it once a day though, because for us it’s really important that we’re not taking each other for granted ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 22
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    Sugar bee

    I think about 5-10, less these months because I am out of town….

    Post # 23
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I beleive if any phrase is over used it begins to lose it’s meaning. I say it once a day or less. He knows I love him, I show it. I need not say it 5+ times a day, kills it for me.

    Post # 24
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 2011

    We say it quite often. when we leave for work,when we get off the phone, when we are fooling around, before we go to bed etc. We know we love eachother, but we both still say it often ๐Ÿ™‚ 

    Post # 25
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    We don’t say it every day, but we do show it every day

    Post # 26
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    Sugar bee

    If I could I’d tell Mr.TKE with every breath I take that I love him. TBS: I tell him about 100 times a day…lol, I tell him a lot, bc he means a lot to me and I think he needs to know it. To quote a song “overuse ‘I love you'”. It’s so true, you can never say it enough. Mr.TKE sometimes just says ok, Ms.AXiD. LOL. But he will never NOT know how much I love him ๐Ÿ™‚

    Also, on that note, I don’t think we overuse it at all. We sometimes say it in French because he took 5 years of it, and I just know some of it. We also call each other “Love”. I RARELY am called by my first name by Mr.TKE.

    Post # 27
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I voted 6-10 but its prob more we talk on phone 2-3x a day and text all day and night when he works nights We are LD so i bet its more …lol

    Post # 28
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    While I think it should be said often, I don’t like to overuse it. I try to save it for those moments that I really WANT to say it–if that makes any sense.

    Post # 29
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2010

    My ex use to tell me 5-10 times a day and I felt less loved than with my husband, who doesn’t tell me everyday. Words with no action have no meaning to me. I guess this is a reason for me not overusing it in this relationship.

    Post # 30
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We’re definitely 1-5, though we’ve gone days without saying it before and it’s usually more like 1-2. We don’t feel the need to say it repeatedly, I think for us it would start to lose its meaning.

    Post # 31
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Probably once or twice a day.

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