(Closed) How often do you and SO say…

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How often does your SO say "I love you"
    A few times a day : (331 votes)
    86 %
    Once a day : (43 votes)
    11 %
    Once a week : (8 votes)
    2 %
    Once a month : (0 votes)
    Once every few months : (2 votes)
    1 %
    Only once in your entire relationship : (0 votes)
    Never and engaged : (0 votes)
    Never and in a serious relationship : (0 votes)
    Never and it's not serious yet : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    3667 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    Several times a day, and it’s special every time!

    Post # 4
    461 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Everyday. In words and in actions. And in silly faces we make at each other. ๐Ÿ˜›

    Post # 6
    2367 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2018

    Yeah, Fiance and I say it… quite a few times a day.

    I also think on my end it was definitely a family cultural thing. My brother used to complain all the time that my mom said “I love you” to us too much haha.

    I think my Fiance was sort of weirded out by it early in our relationship (not that we said it at all- he actually said it first) but that I would say it so often/habitually, like my mom. But now he does it, too haha.

    Post # 7
    10714 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Definitely a lot. I’ve never paid attention to how many times it’s actually said but it’s everytime we part ways in the morning when he goes  to work, before we go to sleep, if we talk on the phone (before we hang up) and whenever one of us says something silly or when one of us is sad.

    I don’t need to hear it… it’s just nice to. It’s always been this way and I hope it always will be.

    Post # 8
    2968 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    we say it when he leaves for work in the morning and before we go to bed and a few times in between ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 9
    108 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    We say it multiple times a day and I get warm fuzzies every time Smile

    Post # 10
    344 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    We say it every day, more than oce or twice or three times. When we go to bed for sure and then we always text each other if we are away from each other, it’s just normal for us, when I feel it, I just say it or text him. 

    Post # 11
    8483 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Constantly. Haha. Random moments of the day, when we’re leaving, before bed, ect.

    Post # 12
    6355 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I’d say once every 2-3 days (that wasn’t an option in the poll) but he’s more of an “action man” and he shows it at least… 10 times a day in all sorts of little ways… so I’m happy.

    Post # 13
    1115 posts
    Bumble bee

    Several times a day!

    Although each time is special, I have to admit that it tugs at my heart just that tiny bit more when he says it after I’ve said or done something silly, quirky, or funny.  It’s like he’s telling me in that one sentence that he loves every bit of me, even the ridiculous parts.

    Post # 14
    2143 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    also several times a day ๐Ÿ™‚ 

    Post # 15
    619 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    We say it all the time, when one of us is going out, or on the phone, or just before going to sleep. I don’t believe it loses meaning at all.

    Now that I think of it, I always tell my parents, too. And Fiance used to always tell his mum. It’s just how we are, I think.

    I have a friend who had a screaming match with her mum, and screamed in her face that she hated her. That was the last thing she ever said to her mum before she died, and she regrets it every day.

    Post # 16
    3173 posts
    Sugar bee

    A few times a day

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