(Closed) how often do you and your hubby have sex?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How often do you and your hubby have sex?
    5-7+ times per week : (20 votes)
    14 %
    3-4 times per week : (47 votes)
    33 %
    1-2 times per week : (45 votes)
    32 %
    Less than once a week : (29 votes)
    21 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    i voted 5-7+ because thats whats happening but to be honest – my hormones have been ranging for a few months now and its all my doing. my poor hubby – dinner sat on the table getting cold last night because i had other ideas

    i will say we went thru a time last year we we didnt have sex for over 6months (work schedules, uni ect drove us both crazy) and although i was very concerned about it, from a female point of view i worried if he was still attracted to me, we talked about it so there were no hurt feelings.  to be honest, once we made the decision to make the effort it became less of a chore and more of a enjoyable habit

    Post # 4
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2009

    Haha, we don’t do it every day, but we’ve been together for nearly 5 years and sexually active for about 4. So even though we thoroughly enjoy it, the “omgIwantyourightnow” has calmed down since we first started having sex… and instead of a quickie or two a day, it’s more like a long session a couple times a week and I think while both have their yummy points, I prefer where we are now.. marathons are really nice! πŸ™‚ We love it, keep each other very satisfied and we still find each other irresistable, but we’re just to another point in our relationship now and this is what works for us. πŸ™‚

    Post # 5
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I voted less than once a month of course bc he’s so far away. It really depends in our lives but we vary so much. We are still trying to figure out sex with my medical condition (it doesn’t always cooperate) but we seem to enjoy some intimacy about every other night unless someones sick or just exhausted. Even so we tend to sleep better if thats the case! Ha!

    Post # 6
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2009

    I dont think you are out of line posting this – the subject line gives plenty of warning to whats in here. πŸ™‚

    I’m in the 3-4 range. We are both always fully satisfied after… but sometimes I take a little convincing to be in the mood. Since we aren’t planning on kids for a while, I’m looking into switching to a non hormonal IUD with the (hopeful) beneficial side effect of no longer supressing my “drive”.

    Post # 7
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    290 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I voted 5-7. We typically have sex every other night during the week, and then a few times on the weekend. We went for 6 or 7 months when we first met and had sex ever. single. day. We called it the Streak. It actually was good for us because even if we fought, neither of us wanted to break it, so we made sure we made up before the lights went out πŸ˜‰ Life is just too busy to keep that up, but sex is a high priority for the both of us.

     

    @mrsmike I wouldn’t worry about what is “normal.” The amount of sex you have is bound to fluxuate throughout your relationship. Quality is more important the quantity. 

    Post # 8
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: February 2009

    Hmm..I say twice a day..lol so thats like 14 times a week. DAMN and he still be wanting some. LOL

    Post # 9
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    279 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2010 - Victorian Gardens of Two Sisters

    I voted less than once a week, only because Fiance is in Canada right now!  But when we visit it’s like, three times a day :  

    I know that’s only because we’re so happy to see each other, but it’s a lot.  His sex drive is higher than mine… I think it’s because I’m his first sex is still so exciting to him.  He’s my… well, we won’t get into the number : )  But I’m at the point where I would be happier with sex a few times a week rather than a few times a day. 

    Post # 10
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    daaaang peoples. I didn’t even see Darling Husband for 8 months and we STILL didn’t do it three times a day. Man!

    do you have time for other stuff?! Holy crap! that much sex would take up like, so much time out of my day, I’m not sure I could find time for it!!!

    Post # 11
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010 - Heinz Chapel Ceremony, Museum Reception

    Whenever I see these polls, I often wonder how long you’ve been sexually active as well. My answer has definitely changed since we started having sex–then, it was easily four-five times a week, sometimes more, sometimes more than once a day. But that was six years ago! Now we have sex once or twice a week. I think it’s just an inevitable fact that the passion and drive does wear off after multiple years of having sex with the same person. Don’t get me wrong, it’s still great and satisfying, but there is not the lust-crazed “I have to have you right now” thing anymore.

    Post # 12
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    We’re not married, we’ve been together over a year. We’ve hung around a 5-8 range unless aunt flo’s in town. In the beginning it was like 6-8 so not really much less.

    Post # 13
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    We’re not married yet but we have been dating for 10yrs. We’ve never lacked in this area. When we 1st started which was about 8 months into dating we were well over 7+ times a week adn of curse we’ve tapered off. But we still get it in(sorry, LOL) about 4-5 times a week. The only time we went weeks w/o was when FH was in National Guard and he was away for drill.

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