(Closed) How often do you and your SO fight?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How often do you and SO fight?
    More than once a week : (14 votes)
    5 %
    Every week : (14 votes)
    5 %
    Every 1-3 weeks : (35 votes)
    13 %
    Every 3-5 weeks : (32 votes)
    12 %
    Every other month : (30 votes)
    11 %
    Every couple months : (40 votes)
    14 %
    A couple times a year : (86 votes)
    31 %
    Never! : (26 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
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    7524 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Darling Husband and I have a big fight about 3 times a year.

    Post # 4
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    4284 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Maybe once or twice a year. We have only had one “big” fight in the 6 years we have been together.

    Post # 5
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    4031 posts
    Honey bee

    @shrubfish09:  Hmm..I honestly cannot really remember the last big, big fight we had. I think it was over my brother, who was living with us at the time and not being a “model” roommate. Regardless, my brother moved out about 7 months ago, so it has been a while. We usually don’t get in huge fights, just pointless stuff and disagreements every now and then.

    In the 9 1/2 years we have been together, we have only had 3 major fights:

    • About moving out of the state after graduating college
    • Whether or not my brother should be living with us 
    • Whether or not my Fiance should take a job offer (that turned out to be pretty bad)

    Are you two having big fights or small, petty arguements? 

    Post # 6
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    1848 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    We used to bicker all the time. For the last 2+ years, however, we’ve definitely improved. If we have a fight, it gets squashed almost immediately.

    I’d say at least a few weeks go between spats. And huge fights? Maybe once or twice a year, if that.

    Post # 7
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    966 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    I’m actually not sure if I know what you mean by big fights? haha. You mean heated discussions that are frustrating but come to understandings/agreements, or like… really head-butting yelling? 

    Post # 8
    Member
    8882 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    We bicker, never fight.

    Post # 9
    Member
    2755 posts
    Sugar bee

    I didn’t vote because we haven’t had any – yet. It’s only been 3 months, so I’m sure that’s coming down the road.

    Although, to be honest, my ex and I rarely fought in the traditional manner – we had some fights toward the end, but for the most part it was me being upset and trying to talk to him and him completely shutting down on me.

    Post # 10
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    5956 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    Mr. 99 and I like to put on the gloves and go the distance on a quarterly basis….we trade a little paint, raise our voices, it’s a nice reminder that we’re both still plugged in.

    Post # 11
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    9181 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    Oops I voted wrong.  I said 3-5 weeks, but if you’re talking *big* fights, like where someone is pissed for hours and maybe sleeps on the couch – that’s like twice a year. We have bicker-that-turn-into-arguments, but then get solved within a few minutes, every month or so.

    Post # 12
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    2902 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    We have are both stubborn and passionate so there are going to be a few fights in our relationship. I would say we fight once every other month. I take awhile to to build up steam and then blow up. Lucky for me (us) I simmer down very quickly. Thank god we are both good at apologising and seeing each others point of view. We also don’t hold grudges or bring up past issues. I think that is important.

    Post # 14
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    703 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

     my Fiance and i fight sometimes. what we mostly do is bicker and that’s usually when either of us had a bad day or we aren’t feeling well. we have a big fight 2 or 3 times a year. Fiance thinks we fight too much but he just says that in the middle of a fight!

     

     

    Post # 15
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    2840 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    My Darling Husband and I have never had a big fight.  We’ve had our disagreements. But we’re both always willing to listen to the other person’s view point and take it into consideration.  It’s worked well for us so far.

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