(Closed) How often do you and your S.O. go out separately?

posted 11 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How often do you and your S.O. go out separately?

    Hardly ever


    Fairly often

  • Post # 32
    536 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I said sometimes..We both work full time during the week so by the time we get home we don’t feel like going out.  But every Thursday we go out serperatly with our friends.  Besides that we are together most of the time!  It’s not like we don’t go out without eachother, we just don’t that often.  Most of my friends are married or in a serious relationship, so most of the time we all go out together!



    Post # 33
    769 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    We have the same group of friends (our grad school friend group has basically coupled up with e/o), but we definitely do girls nights, guys nights, separate dinners/drinks with coworkers, etc.  I love hanging out with Fiance, but we have no problem doing our own thing as well.

    Post # 34
    463 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    Fairly often for us.  We hang out with a mutual group of friends, but I have my girlfriends and he has his basketball buddies.  Plus, I have my Michaels and Paper Source obsession that he just can’t understand LOL!

    I love travelling (esp. alone) and I’m glad that he’s very supportive of that. 


    Post # 35
    2206 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Several times a week!

    Fiance and I have our own things going. He goes out with his friends, I go out with my friends, I even go out with his friends when he isn’t there!

    But we are super social. I stay home at night or on a weekend once or twice a week, and pretty much not a day goes by that Fiance doesn’t get out of the house to do something other than work. So, we go out for a drink, or a meal, or to a friend’s house or to a show or something most days of the week.

    Post # 36
    2204 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    We go out separately about as much as we go out together.  But we stay in together a lot more often.

    Its a little harder for me since I don’t have a real network of friends in CA since I moved post-wedding, but I’m getting there!

    Post # 37
    713 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    we live together and have the same group of coed friends so we are usually out doing the group thing… or sometimes just us… and then sometimes i get together with just the girls.. or he does his thing.. i think we keep it pretty healthy.

    Post # 38
    111 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    My Fiance is currently in Mexico for two weeks for class (he’s in grad school) and I just returned from a month in London for my job so we definitely do our own thing fairly often.

    But we live together and spend lots of time with each other- when we’re in the same place at the same time 🙂

    Post # 39
    4765 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

    It’s pretty rare for us! Not because we can’t be apart or anything…we just like to spend time together and we share the same group of friends, so its’ really not necessary very often. 🙂

    Post # 40
    1194 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    We spend a lot of time apart compared to our other friends.  On Monday and Tuesday nights, he’s out working on his Ebay business and on Thursdays he goes out for guys night.  I go to my parents house to hang out.  And, usually we’ll do our own thing during the day on the weekend once or twice a month.  If we can, we try to dedicate Wednesday together.  On weekends, we try to stay flexible, but ask for the other’s OK before making plans. 

    Post # 41
    5870 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    We’re semi long distance so when we’re together we almost never go out separately – we’d only do that for a very specific reason (one person was invited to an event but for some reason the other person isn’t able to come).  Obviously when we’re apart we always go out separately (duh).  

    Post # 42
    3538 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    during the week he goes lawn bowling on wed (how old does that sound with his work mates mostly 20-25 year olds) thursdays we go out together but on the weekends since we are saving were not really doing much atm and we work really long hours I work 50hrs and FH works 60+ we are pretty tired and we value the time together.. FH is very much a movie fantatic and will quite happily stay home watching dvds, and since the wedding DIY stuff has started im usually in the study but he will come in and hang out on the couch and we chat away for hours.

    However if we go out out we go together. His mates dont like going to clubs and will rarely go to a pub so its usually FH visiting friends and when he does that Ill go do my own thing.

    Post # 43
    400 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    We do a lot together as a couple but I both feel it’s important to get out with our friends from time to time. It’s healthy for our relationship 😉

    Post # 44
    284 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I think it’s good for us to do our own thing with friends, but our friends usually do couples dates.  I will admit it is hard for me to leave to workout at night or to go to my night class b/c after being gone from each other all day at work, I just want to come home and relax with him.  We’re not the type of couple that look forward to the time when we’re apart, saying I can’t wait for you to go on a business trip to such and such.

    Post # 45
    454 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    my fiance and i like doing different things. he plays hockey at least 2-3 times per week and sometimes will go to the bar afterwards to hang out with the guys. i like going out with my girlfriends to go shopping and whatnot. a lot of times we’ll all meet up for dinner, because a lot of my friends are his friends now too.

    Post # 46
    5495 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    We do it a few times a month. It’s really not a big deal. = )

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