How often do you and your SO have sex?

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How often do you and your SO have sex?
    Never : (30 votes)
    10 %
    Once : (75 votes)
    26 %
    Twice : (63 votes)
    22 %
    Thrice : (46 votes)
    16 %
    Four times : (33 votes)
    12 %
    5 times : (16 votes)
    6 %
    6 times : (5 votes)
    2 %
    7 times : (5 votes)
    2 %
    We are horny bunnies so over 8. : (13 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 17
    1735 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2017

    ashquita :  6-7 times per week is our norm. 

    Post # 18
    1395 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2020

    Well we’re long distance right now, so nada lol. Okay, more like once every two weeks, but still not enough!

    I voted 3x a week, since that sounded about right when we were living together. We were constantly busy tho, so some weeks may have only been one, while less stressful weeks were more like 5x. 

    Post # 19
    1946 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2017 - Pearson Convention Centre

    We’ve only been married for a few months and we make love 5-7 times a week

    Post # 20
    4539 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    MrsHarryDresden :  bahaha….  All these bees having sex practically every day is giving me a complex!! ๐Ÿ˜ฒ 

    Does nobody like TV or sleep on here???  

    Post # 21
    572 posts
    Busy bee

    Wow there are some busy bees here… I feel bad about our sex life now. Both of us have low sex drives so maybe once every 4-6 weeks?

    Post # 22
    706 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    ashquita :  we dont have a weekly norm but we have a good average lol. 

    My Darling Husband and I are on opposite schedules and we both work rotating weekends. We have a 4 year old as well. So we can go 2 weeks without sex but then it’s like lightning strikes and we do it like 6-10 times in one week to get it all out. 

    Its not always like that though. We go through phases. I think it makes us more flexible and also creates “intensity” if we wait a long time, which were totally into. 


    Post # 23
    2592 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2017

    We used to be bunnies back in our twenties. Been together nearly 9.5 years. Stress really eats away at our sex drives, especially for my Darling Husband. Not to mention he goes to bed about 3 hours after I do, so that makes things difficult. 

    But we make up for it on the weekends, usually. 

    Trying to not feel bad and compare myself to the bunny bees. 

    Post # 24
    2978 posts
    Sugar bee

    Oh, twice a day… at least.

    Post # 25
    211 posts
    Helper bee

    3-5 times a week. We both suck at initiating it/wanting it, even though it’s always incredible. So we make sure to start something and within 2 minutes we’re both in the mood.

    Post # 26
    1663 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2017

    Wanted to add that we’ve been together 10 years and are still averaging daily sex and seriously now that I’m pregnant, I can’t get enough. Drive is through the roof. Husband loves it lol. We did it even more in our earlier years. We’d have daaays of sex ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ 

    I suspect that post c section with a newborn, we might just not do it as often. But tbh, I often need an orgasm to get to sleep so why not?! Just a quickie at the end of the night even!

    Now there’s enough Too Much Information for the night! 

    Post # 27
    1556 posts
    Bumble bee

    cmsgirl :  +1 sleep and tv. Feeling like a really bad wifey now ๐Ÿ™

    Post # 28
    4539 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    fran01 :  glad I’m not the only one who likes her Netflix without a side serve of chill!!!  ๐Ÿ˜

    Post # 29
    925 posts
    Busy bee

    MrsHarryDresden :  Mine and FI’s kids are older (the youngest out of our crew is 8), so more self-sufficient. When my kids were younger and more needy, ex and I managed 1-2 week. 

    We usually have sex before bed (it helps me wind down and fall asleep) and sex after the kids are on the bus but before we have to be into work in the morning. We have quickies here and there too. We watch tv and have hobbies -we just make a lot of time for sex bc it’s a need for both of us.  FI and I both have really high sex drives – we realize we aren’t typical and are glad we found each other! Previous partners had no idea what to do with us.

    To the bees feeling bad about ppl having more sex – If you and your partner are happy with the frequency, that’s all that matters. 

    Post # 30
    7815 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2010

    MrsHarryDresden :  I have 3 kids and I’m there with you. I’m TIRED!

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