How often do you and your SO have sex?

posted 1 year ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How often do you and your SO have sex?
    Never : (30 votes)
    11 %
    Once : (74 votes)
    26 %
    Twice : (63 votes)
    22 %
    Thrice : (45 votes)
    16 %
    Four times : (31 votes)
    11 %
    5 times : (16 votes)
    6 %
    6 times : (5 votes)
    2 %
    7 times : (5 votes)
    2 %
    We are horny bunnies so over 8. : (13 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 61
    1546 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    Im never in the mood, tbh im kind of concerned but havent gone to the doctor.

    I think we get it going every two weeks… he could do it everyday tho. 

    Post # 62
    2 posts
    • Wedding: March 2018

    3 – 4 times a week

    Post # 63
    97 posts
    Worker bee

    Me and my SO definitely don’t have a lot of sex anymore.  I have an almost 5 month old who keeps me busy all day.  It wouldn’t be an issue if my SO wanted to get frisky any timw before his bedtime.  But my SO only likes to have sex when he goes to bed between 11pm-midnight and that is just too late for me the majority of the time.  


    However, I am pretty confident when my little man starts sleeping better throughout the night and we get into a continuous routine then me and my SO will be able to have sex more often.

    Post # 64
    383 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2019

    Almost never. BC pill kills my drive completely :-/ Luckily he doesn’t mind too much. We might do it once every few months but not in the way most ppl do… bc that hurts me (gyno never figured out why). Also we have no kids and don’t plan to

    Post # 65
    672 posts
    Busy bee

    Not much! My daughter is a teenager and our house is small. So we can’t really do it without her hearing. So if we do it’s an afternoon when we both happen to be home or maybe a weekend night when she’s out. 

    Post # 66
    1068 posts
    Bumble bee

    Not sure. Assume MOSTLY 3 times. Could be more or less. There is no consistency I just try to avoid going below 2 because I know my SO would be bummed. Because I have ZERO drive (assume its from BC after 12+years) and therefore I try to put in the intiative even if I have no interest at that moment. My SO is very attractive but my hormones obviously ruin it for me.

    Post # 67
    210 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    2-6 times a year.

    Post # 68
    433 posts
    Helper bee

    I’m always in the mood, well except for when it’s that time of the month lol.

    Post # 69
    656 posts
    Busy bee


    We are somewhere in the twice to thrice range. I am still ‘recovering’ from my narcissict ex. I have bad experience of sexual intimacy with him so I am not very forthcoming. I LOVE doing it with my current SO, so we manage it 2-3 times a week but I would like it more.

    Post # 70
    788 posts
    Busy bee

    ashquita :  I live by the no denial policy. Unless I am dead tired in pain or sick. I don’t deny sex. Keeps relationship strong. I enjoy it, and initiate alot too. 

    6 to 9 times,a week? We occasionally  skip a day due to shift change

    Post # 71
    103 posts
    Blushing bee

    Before he started working a second job we would have sex 4-5 a week now that he works two evenings a week plus one weekend day it’s 2-4.  I personally think that our sex live has improved with less sex. It’s hotter and more passionate. 😉

    Post # 72
    70 posts
    Worker bee

    Whenever we can find the time tbh

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