(Closed) How often do you and your SO…..

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How often do you and SO/FI/DH get busy?
    we are practicing abstinence : (19 votes)
    7 %
    more than once a day : (18 votes)
    6 %
    once a week : (105 votes)
    37 %
    3-4 times a week : (103 votes)
    36 %
    about once a month : (25 votes)
    9 %
    other : (17 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    How on earth do they have TIME for that? Impressive!

    Post # 5
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    475 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    SO and I are abstaining until we’re engaged. Hopefully that’ll happen sooner rather than later!

    Post # 6
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    Sugar bee

    We’re abstaining.  That seems like a lot of sex and sounds actually painful and extremely tiring.

    Post # 7
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    Three times a day, like, everyday? Wowsa!

    We’re so busy that we  probably get around to it from one to three times a week, depending on energy and schedule..

    Post # 8
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    We spoke about this before we got married. We both know that over time, the numbers will go down (like when we have a newborn) but we try for 3-4 times a week. Some weeks its less and some weeks it more (for various reasons) but its nice to have a general idea of what both people are expecting. Wink

    Post # 9
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    If its the weekend I can understand 3 times a day but during the work week, um wouldnt be possible for us. Between Darling Husband working 12 hr days and my school thats just crazy. My Darling Husband and I are ‘active’ about everyday sometime twice a day

    Post # 10
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    Sugar bee

    This reminds me of the episode of Golden Girls where Rose tells Blanche and Dorothy that she and her husband had intercourse every morning before they got up and every night when they went to bed.  She said they had really shiny hair. It just completely surprised and intrigued Blanche.

    Post # 11
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    It just depends on how busy our week is – on average probably 2x a week. When we are on vacation it is 3x a day!

    Post # 12
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    2x a week. Sometimes 3. Not an option on the poll, though!

    Post # 13
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I chose “other” aka I’m not telling.  That’s between us 🙂

    Post # 14
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Once a week works for us. Sometimes I think one or the other of us would like it to be more often, but I value sleep much more than sex.

    Post # 15
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I picked 3-4 times a week only because 2x a week wasn’t an option. 

    @windmills: Gotta agree with the sleep! 

    Post # 16
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    4 to 5 times a week.

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